I would like to extend my condolences to you all.
I have kept out of this thread because, being a newcomer, I felt it was probably personal.
I have only just caught up with the sad news because of the thread about the recipes, which I think is a wonderful idea.
I did not have the priveledge of getting to know your freind, but I am touched by your loss.
A long time ago I lost someone I knew only through Newsgroups, and the whole group did something personal in his memory, also for the Macmillan Charity. It is heartwarming to know that online communities still have a heart.