I expect that my husband and I are at the bottom of the pecking order on all your definitions so feel free to pour scorn on us.
We certainly do ask our farming neighbours for advice and help with jobs we don't have the equipment for, but we value their advice, we pay the rate they ask for
and we pay immediately that the bill is presented, unlike some of their fellow farmers. Our neighbours say that they appreciate that we are improving our land, which had been neglected for decades; yes, they may be bullshitting us to keep our custom but they don't strike me as that duplicitous.
They also say that they are impressed by the care we give to our animals, even though they think we are mad to hand feed our few sheep digestive biscuits

We only do that ( after avidly reading people's tips on here actually) so that they are now tame and we are better able to care for their welfare. So what if it worked for us and was a means to a very desirable end? Of course the "farmer" couldn't do that with 300 sheep but aren't we both just tailoring our methods for the better care of our animals?
Seems to me then that farmers, hobby farmers, smallholders , good lifers are all really shades of the same breed of person....... people who care about land, the countryside and animals who choose to make those things an integral part of their daily lives. What a shame then that instead of supporting each other we are looking to score points against the "others"