Ok.... so here goes
I lost my darling little Laddie over Christmas, he wasnt yet ten, he had gone done rapidly over the last few weeks, I had tried everything including homeopathic things and radionics when the vets had no clue any more, Its not that I believed in them but I wanted to try everything, I told Laddie I would fix him and I couldnt
He started throwing up two days after christmas, I rushed him to the vets and Laddie died in my arms in the carpark
Words cannot describe but I cant say much more about Laddie right now
In the mean time, Tully is missing him greatly, even though we did show Laddie to Tully so that he understood and didnt wander where Laddie had gone or try and look for him, he understands and is just sad and lonely
We decided to try and look for another dog, a puppy being ideal but not a very young puppy, my OH didnt want a collie as he wanted something bigger and stronger and less clever....
We found an advert for a golden retriever puppy 10 months old and went to go and see him, he seemed lovely at the ladies house and we met the puppies mum as he was home bred, reason for sale was that the husband was too ill to walk the puppy, well we ended up bringing Jim home that evening (sunday evening) after paying a good amount of money, we should have asked for a trial period....
Well.... as soon as he settled in on monday/tuesday he has turned into the devils dog, maybe I have it easy having a well behaved collie but this is something else
Firstly for the mild stuff, he counter surfs and will snatch and eat anything off the counters and tables, if I say anything to him whilst he is doing this he wee's, if I hold his collar then he wee's, he is NOT fully house trained and he consumes paper, cardboard, socks and clothing, ripping it up and swallowing
Then there are the aggression issues, he is EXTREMELY dominant, follwing me around and leaning into me, when he does this he stares at Tully and growls and shows his teeth, if Tully doesnt leave then he may or may not attack Tully, teeth claws the lot, Tully runs away and he may bite Tully on the back or head or neck, very scary!
He guards food and rawhide, growling over it and will attack Tully if Tully comes into the room, he does not like it if I talk to Tully or give Tully attention.
On dog walks he pulls like a train and so I bought him a halti and he still pulls, he weighs 30kilo! and my wrist is now sprained, he attacked a doberman puppy who ran up to him yesterday and tried to eat a shih tzu, today he attacked Tully in the park for walking too close to his toy! and then went for the neck of a labrador that ran up to say hello.....
when he attacks he puts his all into it, holding tail up and stiff and straight like a stick, has his head held up high and ears forwards and he goes for the neck and head of the dog, snarling and biting
In between all of this he walks around looking like an angelic sweet puppy, I have adopted the "pack rules" by Jan Fennel which seems to have helped in the house but not outside of it
I would like to take Jim back and get my money back, as although he may be fixable as he is only 10months old, I didnt want to buy a dog with issues and me and Tully are finding this too hard, I just burst into tears two days ago when I had to literally beat Jim off Tully
So therefor I have contacted the previous owner, she has said that this is all new and Jim never has done anything like this before.... could this be possible? and that she is happy to take Jim back but no longer has the money as she spent it all, she can possibly pay me back a little each month into a bank account
So.... what would everyone else do? do I risk that she may not give me my money and just give Jim back?
or perhaps its too late and I have to keep Jim, is a 10 month old overweight puppy fixable? not that I fancy fixing a puppy anyway as he is ruining my walks etc with Tully
he is already better in the house since I started ignoring him for ten mins when I even walk from room to room let alone in the door and eating some toast before putting his bowl down etc
A crate does not work, I put him inside one whilst I went out for 2 hours, came back and he has bent all of the metal like hulk and eaten his way out
Its my fault completely! I have learnt from my mistakes, why on earth did I not ask for a trial period I will never know, we went for a golden as they are easy dogs with no issues.....