A bully takes your sole away, and I married a bully but then again, he could not help it as that was due to his upbringing, I am good friends with him now although never forget the very bad things he did.
I had a job where the boss was a bully, she actualy picked on others but they put thier notice in and were off soon so took it all in thier stride, I found my boss to be extreamly racist and kept notes but nothing was done, when she started on me I walked out, I intended to stay but that was that. I must add, she was in fact sacked not long after I left and my best friend and ex police women ended up having a breakdown due to her, people do need to deal and make note of issues with a bully to nip it in the bud.
On here people forget being racist is the worst form of being a bully, I sometimes wish I had stepped in sooner but thats me, and as I am not always good with words can be taken wrongly.
Being a bully is a sign of weakness, they try to make others weaker so they gain status, I do not need status as I am happy on my own with my family.
I was never ever bullied at school and detest how power goes to some peoples heads!!