I just detest having to rely on anyone, I have had a few poorly times but now fine, I so remember trying to put shopping away after my hip op...that's another job I hate...putting stuff into their proper homes,,,,(why do some people ,often men, ask where something is, then never put it back, so you end up putting it away again so the cycle continues) I find the key to housework is having homes for everything!!! Oh, and I found my phone today, it was under the sofa cushions when I lifted them to get a blanket as I was cold, also found a lot of loose change and my clicker!!!