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ellisr · « **Reply #60 on:** July 30, 2010, 09:17:59 am »

Do I care!!!!!! both are good to me lol.....Two birds with one stone and all that I see this as a win win situation

Moregin · « **Reply #61 on:** July 30, 2010, 10:23:11 am »

Ellisr,

Hi, not sure if this will help, but try reporting him to the police, you are feeling threatened and intimidated (these are the words to use). Especially effective if you have young children.

this advice came from a friend who worked with CAB.

Hope you get it all sorted out.

ellisr · « **Reply #62 on:** July 30, 2010, 10:41:45 am »

I am now living alone as my husband couldn't take the pressures of it all, and all the kids have flown the nest. So I am going to use that I am walking around with my note book and writing things down to make a case.

Roxy · « **Reply #63 on:** July 30, 2010, 03:15:23 pm »

Thats not a nice situation at all, if you are alone, and this man I assume knows it?

If there is something you could specifically report to the police, perhaps him seeing a police car outside your home, would be enough to make him at least think, and back off you.

ellisr · « **Reply #64 on:** July 30, 2010, 03:42:44 pm »

It would but at the moment I have greater things on my mind than a sad man with nothing better to do. He will get his comupence when this situation is all over. I am a great believer in what doesn't kill us makes us stronger so he better watch out as I don't have anyone to hold me back now

Daveravey · « **Reply #65 on:** July 30, 2010, 04:07:01 pm »

How about a nice lawyer's letter of intent to sue him for loss of earnings if he continues his plight against your stock.

ellisr · « **Reply #66 on:** July 30, 2010, 04:15:41 pm »

can I sue for loss of husband at the same time?

Roxy · « **Reply #67 on:** July 30, 2010, 04:23:39 pm »

Having suffered at the hands of neighbours like this in the past, I can fully understand the stress this has put on your husband and yourself. The stress I was under caused me to have really bad stomach ulcers. We are not about to move out of the farm, and we still own the house where we had all the trouble. I cannot move back there, even though the neighbours have moved .....my caravan is a nicer option.

doganjo · « **Reply #68 on:** July 30, 2010, 07:32:17 pm »

Hey, Roxy, are things better for you now then.
Ellisr - you should let a lawyer know that your husband left the marital home because of this man stalking you both.