Thankyou landroverroy, its comments like those from Floyd that remind me why I've not been on the forum much lately.
I have had many dogs over the years, some from pups to old age, others taken in for rehoming or retirement, and a few passing through to rehome for clients. They are all different and have their own quirks and needs. This particular bitch was handled too strongly as a pup for her sensitive nature & put off working. I took her at 6 months and repaired a broken dog into a sweet well mannered pet. She is however too soft for me - i have tried her running, biking, hill walking, agility, flyball, obedience, dancing, retrieving, sheep, riding etc but to no avail. All she wants is a home where shes walked maybe an hour a day ( and not if its raining..) but more importantly someone who will cuddle & fuss her, or share the sofa and fire. That is just not the life I lead. It is because I am a caring dog owner that I recognize that keeping her is causing her mental distress. I think we all need to realize that we are responsible for the psychological as well as physical well being of our animals. in many cases we can adjust things to correct deficiencies but sometimes we need to just accept that rehoming is the kinder option for the pet.
So, I thought I would post on here in case anyone is searching for a new soulmate. You will notice shes not " advertised" on the marketplace, or on preloved gumtree or any other internet site. She can stay with me until the right home comes up but assuming she will live another 10years I still feel rehoming is in her best interest in the long run.