
Try to keep your chin up and
Dog bites always look worse before they get better, the infection and dead cells are coming away as the new ones grow. Just keep washing,washing,washing and don't be shy to give the areas a damn good rub to get rid of all that gooey mess, there will be nice healthy tissue appearing under it in a few days.
Glad they are starting to eat, sounds like they are over the shock stage at least.

that your pregnant Shetland holds.
The ear flap that is back together may be fine. It may be that the hot ear is more infected so is 'heated up' while the fight on the infection is going on, so dont give up on either flap