Author Topic: Do you have tattoos?  (Read 25912 times)

doganjo

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #30 on: January 25, 2014, 11:30:25 am »
Four Cats asked this
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This will be my first tattoo, so I'm not really sure about it. How it goes and such

I believe she now has all the information needed to decide whether to go ahead with having a tattoo or not, what type to have, where to have it.  We are all entitled to our own opinion, and I don't see any of the foregoing as judgemental.

Tattoos are expensive - fact
Tattoos hurt - fact
Tattoos can damage skin - fact
Tattoos are difficult to remove if you change your mind - fact
Tattoos can be in places where they are hidden or not as you please - fact
Tattoos can be seen as statements - aggressive, intimidating or otherwise - fact

We have all expressed views on this and it is now up to Four Cats what she takes from the discussion .
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Thyme

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #31 on: January 25, 2014, 12:10:47 pm »
Maybe there are worse things to do than take charge of what is done to ones body for the first time in ones life perhaps, and choose something at times of great significance to remind and represent the things that truly matter when so much else is all around underlining how bad, ugly, wrong, miserably unworthy you are to the majority of society.  I looked a long time before starting and found, both times, someone I trusted with the skills and the vision to create on my skin something I will live and die with.  So if you're going for it, don't choose lightly or by criteria that matter less to your long term satisfaction than how cheaply or quickly it can be shown off.

Very well said ellied.
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plumseverywhere

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #32 on: January 25, 2014, 12:47:40 pm »
Hiya fourcats

I have 4 tattoos.  Did they hurt? well the ones near bones did, others just felt a bit like something being dragged on my skin.
In my time I've had both ears pierced 3 times, only wear 2 pairs of earrings now though, I had my nose pierced but that has sealed up and I had my bellybutton pierced but since I had 4 babies wouldnt' even want my belly being seen let alone a piercins so thats long since gone.

Do I care what people think about my tattoos? no, not really. Be prepared for people to feel free to pass judgement on you though if its in a visible place and just have some answers ready  ;)  Everyone is free to have an opinon same as everyone is free to have a tattoo if they so choose  :)

Get recommendations for a tattoo artist, you have to feel comfortable and confident in their work as you are going to be 'wearing' it for a long time.  Don't do it as a whim (like I did one of mine and then had to get it altered lol)  and hope it all goes well for you  :)
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shygirl

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #33 on: January 25, 2014, 02:14:01 pm »
bellybutton piercing - been there too   :roflanim:

ellied

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #34 on: January 25, 2014, 02:15:15 pm »
Couple of practical points I didn't mention because I got upset,  sorry.

Expense:  I pay £50/hour for a top class skin artist whose clients travel across Scotland to get him and has a 3-4 month waiting list.  He's in Cupar 8 miles from me so I consider myself fortunate in that regard.  He takes a £20 deposit on booking and the rest at the end of each session with the deposit rolling forward til completion, however long it takes.  The previous one in Feb 2010 was around £80 total for a 3-4 hour one off and they didn't do it quite as I asked because I wasn't looking as it was done, on their advice.  The job was done fast but would be hard to correct to my original design.  I took that as educational but the foot part needed redone as it fades faster anywhere the skin is covered and rubbed ie shoes, belts.  The guy I go to now, we chat, he draws, I check, he works and it is a real two way creation and we chat more..  Also colour costs more than single black/shading, takes longer and is a matter of choice so think about how much time/money/discomfort you are wanting to invest.

Pain:  Strangely I wouldn't say it hurts as much as some untattooed people assume and I anticipated.  It is more discomfort but it does get sore overnight the first night, a bit like being scratched at the time and sunburn later.  When actually underway, watch and talk to the artist, don't look away and try to ignore what is happening - I don't know why but it is easier if you're interested and more likely to be what you want if you're watching it grow.  Also let the first few minutes go by before you assume you'll not manage a long sitting as endorphins kick in and it actually becomes relatively pain free I find.  I most recently treated myself to a starting session of 2 hours when I had sold some personal possessions and had a bit spare, and at the end I'd have been willing to sit for another 2 at the end if there were time and cash spare to arrange it!  So don't assume the worst and remember all kinds of people get them now, not just hardman types - it's not a feat of stoic endurance of agony above your capacity and fear will make it worse (adrenaline instead of endorphins) so try and relax into it, a good artist will keep you occupied chatting until you get settled.

Also, afterwards, treat it properly and keep it clean/moisturised - ignore anyone that recommends the old cling film treatment as that increases risk of getting infected, that is painful but the worst is trying not to scratch like any superficial wound scabs or aftersun peeling!  Avoid bony areas first time around til you know what to expect.  And for ladies, something nobody told me, the time of the month is significant to pain sensitivity so check with your artist but I THINK it is avoid tats when ovulating, can't remember and I no longer bother but my redo of the foot was way more pain than the first or any subsequent sessions for that reason.

I hope that this is of more help than my first response and, having recent experience I am more than happy to answer any questions by pm or here, if I had the money I'd probably have more, it's not like I show my body to anyone other than medical professionals these days, and if nothing else it's a conversation starter!

Oops, sorry, one more thing, just an opinion rather than factual this time ;)  Don't fall for the trends of the time as they get dated, go for something unique and significant to you, like your animal idea.  Tramp stamps, unreadable Chinese symbols, text along the forearm, tribal/celtic armbanding, all a bit like permanently going out with a 1970s hairdo - only if you're really into your retro look!  If you're going to make a statement, make it your statement and forget what everyone else is wearing this season - and the next 20-60 seasons..!
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Padge

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #35 on: January 26, 2014, 10:17:50 am »
I am right with you ellied :thumbsup:

the OP was looking for advice etc but instead we have ended up with a thread overtaken by negative opinions, I dont believe they asked if you had an opinion on tattoos.
And frankly some of the things being said are quite offensive and judgemental.  I dont make any judgement s about non inked people so what gives them the right to make judgement s about those of us who are


With you both there.... :sunshine:....and still the response is 'factually' negative according to one poster.......

Is each to their own imo.........I would consider smoking or drinking to excess....and I mean excess having seen the damage it does first hand.....to be self harm   yet they seem to be acceptable
Tattooing can be a fad...a trend  that people wish to be part of......or it can be a story of someones life......events /people /good or bad that for whatever reason they keep close to them........yes there are those that judge......a fair few on here it would seem.....I think instantaneous judgements are pretty shallow in whatever context.....

I would say...research...think long and hard about what you are considering doing to your body   use a good artist on recommendation.......a cheap option can't be scrubbed out...think about its placement....if only to spare yourself some of the discrimination of others.......and good luck whatever you decide :sunshine:

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« Reply #36 on: January 26, 2014, 12:33:11 pm »
"yes there are those that judge , a fair few on here it would seem , i think instantaneous judgements are pretty shallow in whatever context " . lol , yep we all do it don't we ? No offence or dig intended , just thought the above funny , and it proved your point perfectly .
I suppose we could all be MP's , hear one question and then procede to answer a completely different one !
On tattoos , i don't have any , i think they are an abomination but , i have no problem with other people having them , half my family have them and piercings , but i don't want any .
My family know i hate them , but love showing me their latest , knowing the response they will receive . However , i would never say they shouldn't have them , that is completely up to them , and they don't need my permission or for me to like them .
I don't ask them for their permission to do anything , or live the way i do , i just do my own thing , as do they theirs , neither being right nor wrong .
 For those that don't like tattoos that's fine , why should they ? For those that want them , that's fine too , it's your body do as you want .
 If you do get one , op , i hope you like it , ( just ignore the pain and infection ,  festering sores and the limbs that fall off , joke ! ) , and good luck .
« Last Edit: January 26, 2014, 12:40:16 pm by RUSTYME »

doganjo

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #37 on: January 26, 2014, 12:35:52 pm »
Marmite springs to mind here  :innocent:
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HappyHippy

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #38 on: January 26, 2014, 01:11:55 pm »
Hmmmmm, I'm quite shocked by some of the comments on this thread !

I have tattoo's, they're just part of me and in the same way I wouldn't comment on anyone else's appearance I wouldn't expect anyone to make comment on mine - fact or not  :-\

All that aside though, to help with the OP's questions... tattoo's don't hurt unless onto boney areas.
Check out the artist beforehand (and not just the drawings they have - see some of their work 'in the flesh') Consider where you're getting it done - places where there's more movement of the skin take longer to heal.
Colours do tend to fade over time unless you take good care of your tattoo (factor 50 SPF suncream) but I've got a coloured one that was done 21 years ago and it's not changed much, but I prefer black & white now  ;)

Good luck whatever you decide - but as you'll have no doubt gathered with this thread, there are a lot of instantly judgmental and prejudiced people out there, you'll need to be prepared to deal with them (or have your tat where you can cover it if need be  ;))

Roxy

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #39 on: January 26, 2014, 02:09:48 pm »
I do not have any tattoos myself, but have no problem with anyone who has/or wants them....
 
A friend of mine started off with a small one on her ankle, and  to be honest, it looked sore while it was healing, but she has gone on to have numerous other tattoos - rather a lot in my opinion, but its her body, and she enjoys them, so why not?
 
Another friend had a pic of her horse and his name on her  neck, and then she sold the horse!! 
 
 

FourCats

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #40 on: January 26, 2014, 02:13:53 pm »
Lots of answers. I never expected so many, but that's totally cool to me.

@moony I totally agree with you. I know that everyone has their own opinions. I was my opinion a couple of years ago, so that's why I totally agree with you.  :thinking:

@SirDoolb this is kinda interest. A zip tattoo over a scar. Really good idea. Got a scar in my childhood, but never thought what to do with it.  :knit:

@shygirl what type of tattoos do you have? If you can share, not pictures, but the idea  :farmer:

@doganjo I too wish a beautiful skin, but I have some scars and some acne and many others. A tattoo wouldn't break me already. But that's just me. I have to say I really respect other opinions from people that don't want tattoos.

@Fleecewife I am with you about piercings. Also the genital ones. I would never do that (maybe now, who knows later).

@fiestyredhead331 thanks for your advice. It's interesting how people you don't know (from the internet) can help you out more than friends you know in real life. Thanks again!

@Alistair You have tattoos, but you don't like them?  :thinking:

@ellied thanks for the story. It helped.

Sorry if I missed to reply to some of you. But you all helped me a lot. Thanks for that.  :hug:

shygirl

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #41 on: January 26, 2014, 02:46:03 pm »
i have a small seahorse on my back/hip and a fairy on my shoulderblade (maybe i should have got a guardian angel but i thought it really pretty). i cant actually see either unless i look in a mirror - neither can anyone else in normal clothes.

it doesnt hurt too much, a bit nippy but nothing compared to labour  :roflanim: :roflanim:

i love the idea of a zip, how cool is that. i could put it over my caesarian scar - now that would confuse my kids  :roflanim: :roflanim:

mowhaugh

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #42 on: January 26, 2014, 04:38:13 pm »

i love the idea of a zip, how cool is that. i could put it over my caesarian scar - now that would confuse my kids  :roflanim: :roflanim:

Now that I could go for.  I'd have to find it under my tummy first, though!

Padge

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #43 on: January 26, 2014, 04:58:06 pm »
Hmmmmm, I'm quite shocked by some of the comments on this thread !

I have tattoo's, they're just part of me and in the same way I wouldn't comment on anyone else's appearance I wouldn't expect anyone to make comment on mine - fact or not  :-\

Good luck whatever you decide - but as you'll have no doubt gathered with this thread, there are a lot of instantly judgmental and prejudiced people out there, you'll need to be prepared to deal with them (or have your tat where you can cover it if need be  ;))

A little more eloquent than me possibly....but well said..... :sunshine:

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Re: Do you have tattoos?
« Reply #44 on: January 26, 2014, 05:08:49 pm »

i love the idea of a zip, how cool is that. i could put it over my caesarian scar - now that would confuse my kids  :roflanim: :roflanim:

Now that I could go for.  I'd have to find it under my tummy first, though!

Middle aged lady came onto our ward for an abdominal hysterectomy. Gynae Registrar comes to examine her pre-op to find pubes dyed green and just below where the incision would go a tattoo saying "Keep off of the grass" . fab!!  ;D
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