I am up to 8 self mutilating tattoos at present and will no doubt have more.
each one marks a time or event in my life and are personal to me. I care not a jot what other people's opinions of them or me are, its my body and my money and I will do with it as I please.
having said that, its a permanent thing unless you consider removal at a later date, but if you are thinking about that then dont get one to begin with.
men have told me they find them a little intimidating until they actually talk to me and realise they are just part of me and I am not in the least bit intimidating. It hasnt prevented me from working in healthcare and social services.
whatever you do, make sure you love it as its going to be there longer than you are! Oh and it only hurts for the first 5 mins, my partner painted my nails for me when I was having one of my larger ones done
oh and I have various piercings, ears, nose, tragus, belly button...........dont make me freak
