Thanks for all the info.
Currently have an ex planning officer helping us in this and will be listing visiting services to the village, i.e. butcher twice a week, milkman every other day bringing groceries also, a fishmonger, Tesco/Sainsbury's deliveries, mobile library, paper delivery, prescription delivery and others I can't remember off the top of my head right now

. We have village allotment holders who have a swap your produce scheme, we personally grow our own veg and fruit, there is a medibus facility, taxis, 5 buses per day pass through the village, all children are collected by school bus, dial-a-ride etc. I hope this will disprove her assumption that it is unsustainable to live in our village although we are about 300m outside the village core and therefore are classed as open countryside for planning purposes

The fact that there are other houses, the village hall and the church filling the gap between us and the 'core' seems irrelevant. Planning officer keeps mentioning in her report how 'remote' we are. The sustainability without a private car is also necessary for future generations due to environmental issues. As there are now some pretty good eco friendly cars on the roads then surely our future generations will be creating better ones by the time they are our future generation commuters!
With reference to the privacy issue the barn conversion is 15m from the farmhouse and they are concerned that our first floor windows will look down into the ground floor kitchen and back garden area. Simple addition of a storm porch would solve that issue and would be in keeping with the character and there will be a private front garden provided. She conveniently forgets to mention the 8'6" brick wall between the house and barn that creates part of the old foldyard.
Doganjo, I will find the councillor's email addresses tomorrow. You have spurred me on