I have just got my decree nici through - we parted company cos of mutual reasons - ie she thought I had cameras in all the light sockets and was going out with a fat nurse in the taffia and what made it mutaul is tha I dont know any fat nurses and the taffia does not exist.
I just couldnt handle getting up in the morning for work and finding she hid my shoes and trousers to stop me leaving the house for work (or to go see the fat nurse as she said) - then still shag me like a rabbit at night.
Left her with the house - she sold it for a pittance - all my stuff got burned in a huge fire.
I'm not bitter - jus glad to get the divorce through.
One thing I am not doing after 5 years though is going for a financial separation as you have to give all your accounts over - to be fair, I've made a bit of money since not being a quivering wreak - last thing I want is to get back involved in a fight for money.

Ah well its all good and part of life - rich and diverse and sometimes shitty.
Baz