Like Happyhippy, I've been following without comment. To be honest the whole thing has disturbed me but now things are going the way of so many sensitive posts on forums.
As always, we don't know the full story, we weren't there and more facts get revealed as the posting progresses.
Personally, I understand what Gary is saying and I also understand the reactions posted.
Reading back to the original post, Eve was perfectly happy with the abbatoir last year, so something must have changed over the year? If it is such a small, tight-knit family affair then what can have changed in the make-up? Where has the 'bad apple' come from and does he really have influence over the other workers? Or have the whole ethics of the place changed?
There are many questions that come out of what has been posted.
I'm sorry, Eve, but you say "clearly this is not the case of one bad apple, or management not being aware - it's a small family run business with their office on the side, other staff didn't intervene, the man who treated our pigs so brutally seems to have a lot to say there and is still working there now. Chances are he is one of the managers."
Haven't you spoken to anyone of authority at the abbatoir?
Whilst I can understand Eve's reaction at the time, the time to go to the owner/head honcho was straight away, or maybe the next day. I have to agree with Gary on this. The most efficient way of dealing with the problem is directly at it's source and whislt you can all argue about it being small and family run and no-one doing anything, we do not know for sure if the owner is aware of what is happening. He/she may be able to put things right. I know that doesn't excuse him from having allowed it to happen, but he may have been able to put a stop to it more quickly for future customers. Personally, I would have made him aware that I was obliged to report the treatment anyway but that I was making him aware of the situation - you can always tell me it's all very well to sit here and say that but, in effect, that's what we are all doing, except Eve.
No amount of "I would have's" are going to make her feel better (I am aware that I've added to that myself).
Meanwhile, the longer dicussions go on, the more pigs are going through the same hands.
I'm sorry, I've said way too much. I find the whole thing appalling.
Eve, nothing I have posted is personal, I'm sorry that you had this experience. Aside from all the personal reactions, there seems to be a lot of useful advice in the postings, I'm sorry that I have been unable to add any. Except perhaps to suggest that it might be worth trying to contact some of the other customers who were there, if you could. I would also suggest you find out more about the abbatoir. If you don't want to have contact with them, look up the business, find out who's who, that sort of thing.