I cannot claim to be an expert at this, there will be others with far more knowledge but here goes:
Dry cure - I dry cure bacon because that is what my customers like. I make my own cure, rub it in and leave it sealed in poly bag in fridge for roughly 5 days for a loin and slightly less for a belly. I wash off the cure, pat dry with kitchen roll. Then I leave for another couple of days in fridge to air, (no idea why but it works for me) then chill to really, really cold before slicing.
Wet cure can be used for bacon, I tend to use it for gammons (always boned out in our case). My cure consists of salt, sugar, water, juniper berries, cloves, pepper corns. I do very large legs so leave them in the cure for 2/3 weeks. Again it works for me.
For a palma style ham the boned out leg is packed in salt and left in a cool place for up to 30 days, then washed off, dried covered in muslin or other to protect from flies and left to hang outside but protected from rain for about 6 months, after which it is bought in cleaned with wine vinegar, then sliced super thin. This is far too salty for my palate.
Smoking is only done after the meat is cured.
For the cures a lot of depends on taste. By some really cheap supermarket pork to experiment with well before hand. Its a lot less heart breaking to ruin a piece of supermarket pork.

Also try your butcher's bacon see if its to your taste, then buy some of his cure if he is willing to sell it.
Hope this helps,