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Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
I feel so sad .....
« on: June 23, 2010, 04:12:30 pm »
as I see my goat herd decreasing, and the goats going off to their new homes.  I have done my best to vet people, and hope I have secured the best homes I possibly can for them.  They deserve that, as they are all nice goats.  Unfortunately some people who rang, were just not suitable (or did not seem it)  They had no idea that goats needed fencing to keep them in, nor other goats and livestock for company. Although some people asked, realised this was what was needed, and admitted they could not go ahead, which I have to give them credit for.

I have also done my best to deliver the goats, so that I can see for myself  where they will be living.  But then the hard part ....walking away as my goats try to get to me, to come back home.  The people who have Paddy and Jasmine and the three pygmy goats have kindly texted me to let me know they have settled ok, which is a relief.

I am off tonight to deliver two of the Franks to their new home - not sure how the other three Franks will feel about that - they have been together since kids.

As  well as my health problems, and the sheer workload, we are on a time limit, as the auction of the farm draws near.  up to press, we have not found anywhere to rent  that will take us and our remaining animals, so it is important I downsize as much as possible, as quick as I can.

jameslindsay

  • Joined Feb 2009
  • Nr St Andrews, Fife
  • "Blossom" one of my Pygmy Goats
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #1 on: June 23, 2010, 04:19:06 pm »
Roxy it must be awful for you but I am sure you have found great homes for them. If our business ever went down the tubes the animals would be my one concern, I can't imagine ever walking away from them. You know you are doing the right thing, keep in there. :) :)

Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #2 on: June 23, 2010, 04:42:05 pm »
I know I am doing the right thing, James, but it does not make it any easier.  When I rehomed the goats for various people, I honestly did not envisage myself in this position.  My animals mean the world to me, and its not often any leave us to go to a new home, unless it be the goat kids.

I suppose the goats will not mind where they are, so long as there is food, and knowing the Franks especially, that is their main concern!!!

I suppose I have been sneaky, but have been googling peoples postcodes on the google map, and having a nosey at where they live, to see if its suitable for my precious goats!!!   Unfortunately, like our own house, some are off the beaten track, up long farm tracks, so you cannot actually see until you get there, as is the one tonight. 

I think I will feel a bit better, once the ones who are going are gone.  It was very hard choosing who had to go, but the white billy is elderley, and I did not want him to go, so he and his little companion, Dolly are staying here.  Will fit those two in somewhere, they are only small!!

plumseverywhere

  • Joined Apr 2013
  • Worcestershire
    • Its Baaath Time
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Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #3 on: June 23, 2010, 05:03:28 pm »
Oh Roxy, I really feel for you  :(  I can't imagine life without my 3 now and even in the case of the kittens I get tearful with them going and would, like you, google addresses to assess suitability (big roads etc!)

they've had a wonderful life with you and I am sure that with everything you are doing they will still have  agreat life, its not like you would let just anyone have them  :)  Its still very hard though xx
Smallholding in Worcestershire, making goats milk soap for www.itsbaaathtime.com and mum to 4 girls,  goats, sheep, chickens, dog, cat and garden snails...

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #4 on: June 23, 2010, 05:16:09 pm »
This must be so rough for you. I can imagine how you must feel, as I'd feel the same. Even knowing you're doing your best won't make it easy.  My thoughts are with you.

Jackie

  • Joined Nov 2009
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #5 on: June 23, 2010, 07:09:01 pm »
Nobody can make you feel better about having to rehome your animals however some of us have had to rehome other animals so can understand how hard it is for you.  :-*

Im sorry Roxy that you have had to do this but you have done the best that you can for them and thats all you can do.

Helencus

  • Joined Feb 2010
  • NW Leicestershire
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #6 on: June 23, 2010, 10:07:17 pm »
I'm sorry Roxy you're doing your best for them tjey couldn't ask for more. Big hug x

Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #7 on: June 24, 2010, 12:31:52 am »
Well two of the Franks have gone.  I didn't look which ones I had got, just put leads on them.  Anyway, my favourite Frank I is still in the shed!!
They enjoyed the 20 mile trip, looking at the countryside. They were leaning over my shoulder all the way.  When we got to Chesterfield, I showed them the crooked church spire.  Lovely place, right out in the country, long way for them to walk into the town and get up to mischief..
They will be in a paddock next to their own ponies.  We put them in a stable, with a pile of hay to settle in overnight.  I went back to say goodbye, and they seemed fine about it.  The man was very nice, and has a 13 year old daughter.  I showed her how the Franks liked a cuddle, but she was a bit wary of goats. I am sure she will soon take to the two boys.  She is more interested in her ponies, who are in the next paddock.

Again, I am pleased the boys have a nice home - and a new identity - Max and Paddy.

Just another nice place for the three boys and two females and that would be great.

plumseverywhere

  • Joined Apr 2013
  • Worcestershire
    • Its Baaath Time
    • Facebook
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2010, 07:43:51 am »
Hi Roxy, not sure if you got my personal message (never sure if I send them right!!)  lady at school seems very keen but needs to wait for her mum to get back from holiday. so if no-one else comes forward in next few days, you could well have a good home over here  :)
Smallholding in Worcestershire, making goats milk soap for www.itsbaaathtime.com and mum to 4 girls,  goats, sheep, chickens, dog, cat and garden snails...

JulieS

  • Joined Mar 2009
  • Devon - EX39 5RF
    • Ford Mill Farm
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #9 on: June 24, 2010, 08:57:52 am »
I can only begin to imagine how you must be feeling Roxy.  A big hug from here in Devon  :love:

Pedigree GOS Pigs and Butchery for Smallholders.

jameslindsay

  • Joined Feb 2009
  • Nr St Andrews, Fife
  • "Blossom" one of my Pygmy Goats
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #10 on: June 24, 2010, 09:22:11 am »
Roxy you must also remember that if you get yourslef ill and are unable to look after your animals then you are no use to them anyway. You must look after your health and keep your strength up for the forthcoming hassles in your life. You are much more use to everyone when you are fighting fit and strong, keep your chin up and keep smiling my friend. :)

Hellybee

  • Joined Feb 2010
    • www.blaengwawrponies.co.uk
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #11 on: June 24, 2010, 10:42:59 am »
Hiya Roxy, i think you do a great job.  Its the same with selling ponies, very bittersweet, you know that youve got the est home for them but yes, it does tug at the heartstrings, but it shows we care.  xxx

doganjo

  • Joined Aug 2012
  • Clackmannanshire
  • Qui? Moi?
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #12 on: June 24, 2010, 11:11:59 am »
I feel the same when selling 8 week old puppies - I insist that my new owners send me regular updates, but it doesn't always happen. ::) :'(
Always have been, always will be, a WYSIWYG - black is black, white is white - no grey in my life! But I'm mellowing in my old age

plumseverywhere

  • Joined Apr 2013
  • Worcestershire
    • Its Baaath Time
    • Facebook
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #13 on: June 24, 2010, 12:56:45 pm »
I cried today while I put the 2 remaining kittens into an ad in our local paper so I think I can understand how hard this must be. you've given them a great home and you just want the best for them still xx
Smallholding in Worcestershire, making goats milk soap for www.itsbaaathtime.com and mum to 4 girls,  goats, sheep, chickens, dog, cat and garden snails...

Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
Re: I feel so sad .....
« Reply #14 on: June 24, 2010, 01:07:35 pm »
I have just one kitten left, which a lady wants when she returns from holiday, to go and live on her farm.  Got to trap the females now to be speyed, that will be fun.  You do get attached to the kittens, after all you feed and love them, and watch them grow and play, its natural you will be sad when they go.  Same with the puppies.  But we cannot keep them all, can we!!

 

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