The surface will make a big difference, as will the ability to take a bit of a run up- will you be able to have the 4x4/trailer parked on the flat and then gun it up the 'ramp'?
For rough numbers, a very very steep public road can be 1:6 (bear in mind that's a tarred surface so much easier to do a hill start on) and 1:10 is considered acceptable for normal use such as driveways.