Hi,
Thanks for the ideas, there are some that really do fit the bill, I'm liking the carriage driving, just need to find something not too far from home.
Fleecewife yours was a great idea, don't know how I didn't think of that myself, although it will probably have to be for next Christmas as I think time is against me this year.
The idea to donate to a charity will probably be his gift to me, as I'm just told to go and buy myself something for Christmas.
Thanks again for taking the time to give me ideas.
Sue