Welcome Isla, nice to know you've been doing your homework :-)
I keep Toggs, the bumf says they were originally bred for cheese making, I think their milk tastes slightly stronger than my Togg x BS, but they are lovely to keep, I wouldn't say they are excitable, maybe playful :-), very affectionate, but the BT I used to have would take ME for a walk!
I have a friend who is getting quite a good business up making goats cheese from AN's.
Goat clubs are great for meeting goaty friends, great for contacts too.
I'm sure once you get your goats, you'll get to know other goaty people locally and soon find a Billyboy. it wouldn't be worth keeping a male for just 3 goats, maybe when you build up you could then think of the breed of male you'd want to use
my milking bench is a half pallet, then cut down narrower, with a couple of 4x4 'bars' underneath to lift it a bit more. a little plastic step-stool is my milking buffet. goats are tied to a ring on the wall. bench is easy to wash and put out in the sun to dry.
We had a contractor in to do the boundary fence with stock fence, then I run a single strand of electric fence about 12" round the inside, stock fences I put up tend to sag, I can't get them tight enough.
- no experience as goatkeeper as goats milk makes me heave,
I can only think you've had some nasty milk Rosemary, fresh chilled goats milk should be no different then cows milk, can taste creamy because the fat doesn't seem to rise the same. In fact during winter we've had cows milk we couldn't drink, probably been fed roots.