Author Topic: Sorry and goodbye  (Read 24524 times)

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Sorry and goodbye
« on: January 29, 2014, 12:27:10 pm »
To those of you who have taken offence to any comment made by me, I am sorry that you were offended. It was never my intention to do so.

Those of you who know me will know that I am certainly not anti-English but I am pro-Scottish independence and I don't make a secret of it.

Since some folk have a problem spotting the difference and I have no wish to have my knuckles rapped yet again, I will bid you farewell!






Fleecewife

  • Joined May 2010
  • South Lanarkshire
    • ScotHebs
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #1 on: January 29, 2014, 12:55:23 pm »
Oh Rosemary, don't go  :'(   You are The Accidental Smallholder
"Let's not talk about what we can do, but do what we can"

There is NO planet B - what are YOU doing to save our home?

Do something today that your future self will thank you for - plant a tree

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Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #2 on: January 29, 2014, 12:56:42 pm »
What really gets me is that I KNOW shygirl and I couldn't have told you she was English. I could tell you what kind of pigs, dogs and cattle she has though.

Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #3 on: January 29, 2014, 01:01:51 pm »
Oh, Rosemary, so sorry this has happened and made you want to leave.  I have been upset myself on occasions, so can fully understand how you feel :hug:

lilfeeb

  • Joined Feb 2013
  • Kinross-shire
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #4 on: January 29, 2014, 01:03:14 pm »
Sorry that you feel that you can't express your views freely here. I'm english by birth, but have lived in Scotland since i was 15 and I support independence and self governance for Scotland and have enjoyed the fact that this website allows  views from all sides to be aired rather than much of the information presented by the pro-union press, which tends to be sensationalist and based on little substance and also paints  pro-independance as being anti - english, its not!

it's not about building a big wall to keep english people out, there are lots of us who choose to live and work here. Its about finding a different way to make Scotland the best place it can be.

The policies designed at Westminster are designed for the majority of the UK population, which simply due to numbers are those living in England and always will be. The issues that need addressed in Scotland are often very different and solutions which work south of the border often have very little impact here.

It's simply about self governance and democracy. I would ask that you don't withdraw from the forum and don't let the Bullies win. let the issues around independance be discussed freely and respectfully by all participants as they impact on smallholders as much as any other citizens.

lord flynn

  • Joined Mar 2012
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #5 on: January 29, 2014, 01:06:29 pm »
Rosemary, I wouldn't want you or anyone to leave-I really appreciate the apology and explanation though. It can be difficult to communicate jokey comments in such a thread and it appears I took the comment the wrong way and for that I apologise. Having been subjected to racism (which is what the OP experienced in that thread)  by extended family and even in public, I am sensitive to it.

This is a topic that's going to come up alot and I honestly respect those opinions in favour of Independence, its an emotive topic though.

Maybe a political thread/board might be a good idea? those that don't want to engage dont have to and those that do well 'whats said in the thread, stays in the thread'?

eta I am not a bully, I reported a comment that I found 'iffy'. I was not the only person to object to the comment but I couldnt reply to the thread as it was locked.

Q

  • Joined Apr 2013
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #6 on: January 29, 2014, 01:09:49 pm »
Rosemary, I am probably one of the ones who got narked.  I dont object to your passion for Scotland, I just dont really want to see it appear on a smallholder forum.

There is absolutely no need to follow through with your statement - in fact it would be quite wrong for the forum if you were to leave it.
If you cant beat 'em then at least bugger 'em about a bit.

mojocafa

  • Joined Sep 2012
  • Angus
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #7 on: January 29, 2014, 01:16:38 pm »
 I too would like you to reconsider, i dont know you personnally,  but it appears to me that you have a wealth of knowledge which you can share and I have the upmost respect for you and dan, (even if you are voting yes :innocent:)

this website .. your website... wouldn't be the same without you
pygmy goats, gsd, border collie, scots dumpys, cochins, araucanas, shetland ducks and geese,  marrans, and pea fowl in a pear tree.

Womble

  • Joined Mar 2009
  • Stirlingshire, Central Scotland
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #8 on: January 29, 2014, 01:22:07 pm »
Wait a sec. I thought we were part of a discussion group in your living room.  You can't leave - then we'd have no living room at all?!?
"All fungi are edible. Some fungi are only edible once." -Terry Pratchett

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #9 on: January 29, 2014, 01:23:29 pm »
Rosemary, I am probably one of the ones who got narked.  I dont object to your passion for Scotland, I just dont really want to see it appear on a smallholder forum.


We specifically put boards on that were not smallholding related - Coffee Lounge, Current Affairs (jeez, THAT was fun), Jokes and funnies (another one that's caused a few "issues") for those who wanted to involve themselves in topics other than those directly related to smallholding. There's no compulsion to read them.

And thanks, for not objecting to my passion for Scotland. I feel better now.  :)

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #10 on: January 29, 2014, 01:24:14 pm »
Wait a sec. I thought we were part of a discussion group in your living room.  You can't leave - then we'd have no living room at all?!?

You can all be in Dan's living room. I'll just make the tea.  ;D

bloomer

  • Joined Aug 2010
  • leslie, fife
  • i have chickens, sheep and opinions!!!
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #11 on: January 29, 2014, 01:26:07 pm »
will there be bacon rolls?


 ;D ;D ;D

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #12 on: January 29, 2014, 01:34:02 pm »
will there be bacon rolls?


 ;D ;D ;D

Don't kick the arse out of it  ;D ;D ;D

goosepimple

  • Joined May 2010
  • nr Lauder, Scottish Borders
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #13 on: January 29, 2014, 01:34:52 pm »
No, it's not right for you to leave Rosemary. 


I love TAS it's enormously helpful and I am so indebted to your creation of it, really. 


I do think that areas for current affairs etc are calling out for friction to happen though.  I never go in them now actually, just stick to smallholding matters, I can't be bothered with all this falling out and people getting shirty and over sensitive.


Let's just stick to smallholding folks, that's why we all came across TAS in the first place and it's brilliant.
registered soay, castlemilk moorit  and north ronaldsay sheep, pygmy goats, steinbacher geese, muscovy ducks, various hens, lots of visiting mallards, a naughty border collie, a puss and a couple of guinea pigs

bloomer

  • Joined Aug 2010
  • leslie, fife
  • i have chickens, sheep and opinions!!!
Re: Sorry and goodbye
« Reply #14 on: January 29, 2014, 01:36:36 pm »
will there be bacon rolls?


 ;D ;D ;D

Don't kick the arse out of it  ;D ;D ;D


but you make good bacon rolls  :excited: :excited: :excited:


this is me being helpful, i'll go eat my lunch quietly in the corner now...

 

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