OK this may be a long post and only of interest to those with some medical background, but I would value opinions
I cracked/damaged back tooth on bank holiday weekend, survived till Tues and went to dentist. She diagnosed infection poked about a bit and took a mouth xray by which time I was in serious pain. Said there was nothing she could do till infection gone and sent me off with antibiotics and told me to take over the counter painkillers and said make an appointment to have tooth out, not keen but because of pain would have agreed to most things so made appt for this Friday (today)
The prescription was for Amoxicillin 250mg - I was to take a first dose of 2 tablets, followed by 1 three times a day ( I weigh over 12 stone

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Took first dose at 4pm and by 6 was feeling much better. By midnight when first tablet due pain was coming back, but with some serious painkillers I got a bit of sleep. Took next one in morning and struggled on. By 4 pain bad again, but thought antibiotics would be kicking in soon.
By evening pain much much worse. Phoned dental emergency unit in Hereford which was shut so phoned 111 - by 10pm managed to get through to doctor by which time running v high temp sweating and trembling. Face swollen and inner ear hurting and eye lid beginning to swell.
111 Doc told me to double Amoxicillin dose and take second double dose at 2pm. Which I did and coupled with painkillers got a couple of hours sleep. Took further double dose when I got up and phoned dentist. Asked to speak to dentist but had relayed conversation via receptionist telling her I was now running out to the anitbiotics and would need more to complete a 5 day course. Told to come in and collect prescription
It turned out to be for Metronidazole 200 and I was to take 1 three times a day and finish the 4 Amoxicillin at the rate of one a day in conjuction As the infection was worse than the day before I cancelled the appt to have tooth extracted
Took first dose at 2pm.
Again by evening pain seriously ramping up. Had to phone 111 again (I didnt know that the dentists now have to have and emergency out of hours service)
Managed to survive till next morning by maximum use of painkiller and warm salt water mouth washes.
Today was not bad till about mid morning and thought antibiotics were beginning doing their job, but no - the pain was coming back again so called into dentist sugery to speak to her personally. Again long and involved relayed messages between her and receptionist saying she would see me and extract tooth at 3pm as previously arranged - which I wasnt happy about.
Finally she came out to see me and was quite cross with me - that I hadn't contacted them (I had no idea I could they were shut and I thought that was that) Argued about the fact that I had contacted the emergency dental unit, because I used the incorrect terminology when referring to it. Finally said - we'll have to be quick - rushed me into her consulting room sat me in the chair and said she would take it out there and then
I asked whether the infection would be dangerous with an extraction - she said no
So I asked why she originally said nothing could be done till the infection was gone - she said that the infection MAY stop the anesthetic working
I said in that case I would wait till infection abated and finally got a prescription for more antibiotics.
She said be sure I made the appointment for extraction before I left, and when I conveniently forgot, rushed after me and shepherded me back to reception and stood behind me till I had made an appointment
NOWWhat is anyone's view on this and what I should do from here. I don't mind having the tooth out per se, though last time she took one out she left a shard in the gum which gradually worked itself out over a period of several weeks, so I am less confident than before, especially with the rather cavalier attitude of taking it out there and then without an appointment and with other people waiting and whilst I still had an infection and was in pain.