It's interesting, when I read the post about the shetland originally I thought good luck to her, she'll be inundated with offers of free ponies because there are so many being given away ie dumped for various reasons from bad conformation and ill health, hidden or otherwise problems, financial hardship, marital breakup, kids losing interest.. but will likely pay ten times over for getting it to the point of health and work she might want for it. Takes all sorts, and if one of those thousands of unwanted animals gets a home half way better than what it has now, good. Hope she knows what she's looking at or she'll be fleeced by someone despite not paying a penny other than travel.
When I read LF's post, as a breeder, I agree that folk wanting something for nothing strike me as a dubious offer to even consider when it comes to livestock, and irresponsible, though desperate, to respond to. But if everyone felt that way then there would be no success stories so there's a place for optimists and desperation I guess. Some people are willing to take on the problem pony or dog or cat or cockerel, and make a go of it, some of those are experienced and competent to do so, some aren't and the animal is worse off with the do-gooder that isn't than with the meat man. I have taken on free ponies before and done extensive vet related work and personal behavioural rehab work with them and hope they all ended up better off for it, even the ones I subsequently loaned or sold on once suitable for a job clearly specified. One is still here that my vet at the time said only another vet or an idiot would take on - and I'm not a vet!
I would only give to someone I know and trust, and cannot comprehend putting a pony in a paper as free to good home, I'd rather have it pts than chuck it out in that way and hope for the best. And I have done exactly that, at my expense had a vet come out, a knacker lorry pick up and paid for what others might have dumped or sent to market or passed on as a freebie to avoid taking responsibility for.
I've taken them on, so I was that kind of person - but I couldn't honestly tell from the ad alone as written whether the poster was looking for a freebie, a genuinely experienced rescue/rehab home, or a well meaning but basically unknowing target for all kinds of con and offloading. Where shetlands are concerned I also had my doubts about the suitability of many potential free ponies for a. a job of work and/or b. a child to be around, and that raises further concerns that may be totally irrelevant if the shetland is simply a companion to live its days eating.
A redraft might be all it takes to bring the kind of animal being looked for, rather than the kind of throwaway owners a breeder would hate to think had ended up with any poor animal we had bred or cared for since birth. I don't think someone offering a home to an unwanted animal should be criticised, but nor do I think a breeder should be criticised for feeling protective of animals being handed over unwanted and in this society for many people to value anything, they have to have paid for it. Sometimes even then they don't if it's an animal, it's just an animal, an accessory to be changed seasonally and thrown in the bin like last years trendy handbag or shoes
Anyway, I don't have a shetland, never plan to have one, and don't need worry about the ad further than to say that a new member is unknown beyond the words they choose to use, so words need to be carefully picked to give a correct impression and I would say from the responses that they are perhaps a little ambiguous if there is such room for doubt, so perhaps just start over?
MTA cross posted with leesey and as this latest post is way clearer about her suitability as a home, it makes my point about the original ad not being clear enough. Sorry leesey, no criticism intended of you as a potential home at all, just the way you advertised sells you short. And the ad might bring you not just criticism from the likes of LF but a huge number of highly unsuitable ponies for your children, which you've already said you'll probably end up spending a fortune to back/school to the point of suitability anyway. I don't know what to suggest but hope you find the right pony and the right pony finds you.