We're bigger fans of bacon / gammon than pork, too, so last pig got grown on to 100kg+ and butcher's instructions were:
- bellies whole for me to stuff and roll (this is my fave pork joint, and BH isn't a fan of streaky bacon)
- a few small joints from the legs and everything else that could be cured, cured
- anything else, sausagemeat
We've just about polished off all the 'normal' back bacon from one side and all the 'collar' bacon, and are a good way through the oddly-shaped and -looking shoulder bacon. I've a whole side wrapped in muslin - must get a good knife as we'll be wanting to get stuck into that in a few weeks.
The sausagemeat gets used for stuffing - the family raved about the stuffing in the Christmas turkey

- and meatballs / sausageburgers etc. (I was expecting one of the other pigs to be sausages, hence didn't need any from the bacon pig.)
I had 6 small rolled leg joints, which was just about the right number. A few to give away, a few to have ourselves (we like roast pork, just not too often.)
Personally I think the slow-roast shoulder idea reads better than it tastes and isn't a patch on slow-roast stuffed belly. Having had it done 'my' way round I will definitely do the same again; the 'shoulder bacon' isn't pretty but it tastes just grand, and slow-roast stuffed belly knocks slow-roast shoulder, and.streaky bacon, into a cocked hat.

And the only other thing to say is - it's
your pig, you have it butchered how you want it!
