Maybe he has cold hands!
Seriously, there might be a reason for her not liking something he's doing or just the fact that it's morning? Ellie was getting antsy when I started the milking recently - it's improved since I started keeping the udder wipes in the house so they were warmer - stands to reason, I wouldn't want cold udder wipes applied to warm bits of me either

Once he's reviewed what he does, to see if there's anything she could take exception to, he might try taking her favourite treat, so she comes to associate him milking her with the treats.
Gotta be worth the try to save hubby feeling rejected and for you to retain your lie in
