I agree inthehills, (tho I am in Scotland). People say - how can you live up on the hill with no visible neighbours, and I say, well my neighbours are just round the hill and unlike in the city, I know them, I trust them and we know we would be able to ask each other for any help we needed.
And in the shop, it may take a little while to get to the front of the queue cos of the chatting, but when you do, it will be your turn for a chat!
I reckon the combination of a 1950s community spirit and 2012 communication technology to make life easier is pretty hard to beat!
I also love the 'old boys' I have met, who love their vintage machinery and whatever question you have, they always know of someone (usually another lovely old boy) who can solve it (need a ram, need some small bale straw whatever it is - they are worth their weight in gold!)