Thanks John, i don't think either of us is trying to make something of the other - we'll just settle with what we've got after years of putting up with each other!! LOL
there will be no need for a smallholding babysitter - 1st off, i've no livestock at the moment, but plans are afoot for Chickens soon.
but wedding plans should involve a cull of said chickens in preparation for wedding feast - along with a nice crop of veg from the garden, hopefully enough summer rasps to make the pudding
the garden will be decimated by this wedding!! Well, that's the plan!!