Author Topic: Ancestral skills passed down  (Read 8290 times)

luckylady

  • Joined Aug 2009
  • Yorkshire
Ancestral skills passed down
« on: November 11, 2012, 10:30:31 am »
What did your great/grandparents do for a living/hobby and did they pass down their skills/talents through the generations?
My maternal grandfather was a cabinet maker and one of his beautiful pieces stands in my dining room to this day.  After the war he was commissioned to make prosthetic limbs for the returning injured soldiers.  He passed down the appreciation of all things crafted from wood and the smell of his workshop is one of my favourite childhood memories.  My maternal grandmother was a milliner and she taught my mother the skill but unfortunately she only carried it on where she would make her own hat for a special occasion such as my wedding.  Although my mother does still have one of my grandmother's original hat blocks.
My paternal grandfather was a farmer and worked the land with horses.  He died when my father was 6 years old but somewhere in the genes an instinctive understanding of equines must have been passed down to my daughter.  He also used his horses to pull a hearse for funerals (farmers diversified even then!).
Doing that swan thing - cool and calm on the surface but paddling like crazy beneath.

little blue

  • Joined Jun 2009
  • Derbyshire
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #1 on: November 11, 2012, 10:38:54 am »
I only knew one of my grandparents, who was a huge influence in my childhood.

farming is in my genes, but not recently.  Ancestors apparently took the first sheep from Lincolnshire to New Zealand .... and where does most of our lamb get imported from?!
Little Blue

Ina

  • Joined Feb 2012
  • South Aberdeenshire
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #2 on: November 11, 2012, 10:39:55 am »
My paternal grandmother was able to knit socks in her sleep... Or so I was told. But since she died when I was 4, it wasn't her who taught me - at that age I just started knitting very wonky doll's blankets - but maybe I got some of her "knitting genes", because I still knit all my own socks (not in my sleep, though!).

There must be something about that gene thing. My father would have liked to become a farmer (his father was a cobbler); since money was tight back then, and he didn't want to go down the route of "wanted: farmer's daughter with large farm and no brothers", he became a bookseller with several allotments... And I went into farming (i.e. apprenticeship, uni etc - not that I can get a job now...), and retained my interest in literature.

lachlanandmarcus

  • Joined Aug 2010
  • Aberdeenshire
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #3 on: November 11, 2012, 10:53:38 am »
My granny was in service as a girl/young woman. My favourite memories are of our visits when she would cook roast lamb and coffee and walnut cake. That along with the a-mazing food made on the premises by my junior school in Lancashire gave me my love of cooking, and hopefully granny's genes have made me a decent cook.

MAK

  • Joined Nov 2011
  • Middle ish of France
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Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #4 on: November 11, 2012, 11:09:55 am »
After my father died I found the correct spelling of his birth name and over one weekend found 14 first cousins who I had never met via the internet. Some flew over from Canada and we all spent the day together.
All the men had jobs that absorbed them in fine detail to the exclusion of other people. My grandfather died in 1938 and was a master presser, my dad and 2 of his brothers were taylors. Of my generation ,three of my cousin are/were taylors, 2 pattern makers and the rest accountants - all the men painted, made furniture or had hobby rooms ( eg. watch repairing).
Both my children will take themselves off to sketch or paint ( like me) and my son is a master goldsmith.
I think the family trait is a preferance for close up hand eye work or maybe just isolation !! Oh - in the next generation we also have 2 professional artists and and a photographer who exhibit internationally.
I have always been sceptical about inheriting artistic traits as I feel we all have the potential to be good at something if we let it consume us and spend hours on it. I can dig great holes !! Maybe I could have been a great javelin thrower too but Dad would not buy me one.
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deepinthewoods

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Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #5 on: November 11, 2012, 11:40:37 am »
unsuprisingly i am a 5th generation joiner.

jaykay

  • Joined Aug 2012
  • Cumbria/N Yorks border
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #6 on: November 11, 2012, 12:07:29 pm »
Grandad was a miner, but a great reader too and kept pigeons and budgies. Dad was a teacher and kept as many animals as he could possibly fit into the house and now fields - fortunately my mum is also quite an animal lover.
Grandma played the piano, as did Gran and Grandpa, and they sang too - I have my Grandpa's copy of the Messiah, marked up by him on the bass line and now by me on the alto.
Gran and Mum were great sewers and knitters and they taught me.

So - I keep animals, am musical; spin, knit and sew; teach and read - all of which I can trace back in my family.

SallyintNorth

  • Joined Feb 2011
  • Cornwall
  • Rarely short of an opinion but I mean well
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Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #7 on: November 11, 2012, 12:42:30 pm »
An ancestor on the male line was an early non-conformist, credited with some influence on the formation of the Quaker movement in England in the 17th century.

I felt suddenly more relaxed with myself when I discovered it was in the genes!  Wish I'd known when I was at school and in my early career...  ;)

Tailors, weavers and spinners in the ancestry on both sides of the family.  Ma taught me to knit and sew.  But now that I know I can't help myself being non-conformist and have the courage and confidence to ad lib and go where the mood takes me, I enjoy knitting far more!  :D

No known agricultural heritage apart from there being Irish on both sides of the family, but we don't know anything about the families over there and they may or may not have had land-based lives.  Ma is sure her side did; she loves digging, weeding and eating potatoes!   :D

Love of animals very strongly from the maternal side, especially the maternal grandfather.

Numeracy from both parents.

Dad is a founder member and Fellow of the British Computer Society, so no surprises where my rat race career took me.
Don't listen to the money men - they know the price of everything and the value of nothing

Live in a cohousing community with small farm for our own use.  Dairy cows (rearing their own calves for beef), pigs, sheep for meat and fleece, ducks and hens for eggs, veg and fruit growing

plumseverywhere

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Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #8 on: November 11, 2012, 02:11:03 pm »
Dad's parents kept chickens and hatched chicks. They also raised rabbits for eating.

Mums' side are gypsies - I have learnt to embroider and cross stitch, make clothes, harvest some amazing 'free' food from foraging and to sink a pint of guinness in seconds from them  ;)
Smallholding in Worcestershire, making goats milk soap for www.itsbaaathtime.com and mum to 4 girls,  goats, sheep, chickens, dog, cat and garden snails...

sabrina

  • Joined Nov 2008
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #9 on: November 11, 2012, 02:53:26 pm »
My grandfather on my dads side had a love of horses but he was a steel worker. My grandmother was brought up in Ireland and she had a horse connection. I knew little of my mothers family as she was brought up by her gran due to her mother being ill and dying when mum was 15 Her father was a white collar worker. most of my uncles were steel workers and had birds as a hobby. I always thought I was some kind of throwback with my love of horses until one of my cousins did the Kerr family tree. My fathers family were all baptist and great church goers. All sang in choirs and played an instrument but alas I am not musical. My dad was one of 8 children and we had great family get togethers when I was growing up.

Ina

  • Joined Feb 2012
  • South Aberdeenshire
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #10 on: November 11, 2012, 03:41:28 pm »
and to sink a pint of guinness in seconds from them  ;)

Ah - that's one thing I didn't get from my parents. They always wondered where their children got the ability to drink more than one glass of wine from.... ;D

Lesley Silvester

  • Joined Sep 2011
  • Telford
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #11 on: November 11, 2012, 06:16:56 pm »
My paternal great-grandfather on my grandmother's side was a market gardener and I believe there was someone into gardening on my paternal grandfather's side as well.  MY paternal grandfather had an allotment, my dad was a very keen vegetable gardener (couldn't see the point of growing things that you couldn't eat although he did have some lovely dahlias in latter years) and so am I.

My maternal grandfather was a barber and I used to cut my children's hair and still do so for my OH.  On my maternal grandmother's side were people in business.  her father had a business which did very well until he was knocked down by a bolting horse and in a coma for three months, during which time his partner swindled him and they ended up very poor.  I haven't inherited that gene, not being in the least business minded although my son started his degree in business studies and economics.  He was told in his first year that he was the best out of all the first and second year business students, at which point he gave it up and concentrated on economics.   :-\

Further back on my maternal grandmother's side was a French Count who escaped to England from the guillotine in the French Revolution.  I was always hopeless at French.   ;D   My maternal grandmother used to crochet and always promised to teach me when I was 15 but by that time her sight was going.  I still managed to learn to crochet and knit, then learned to weave.

It is interesting to look back and see what our ancestors did.

deepinthewoods

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Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #12 on: November 11, 2012, 07:23:15 pm »
my paternal side is quite interesting and i know much more about it. my family is from the forest of dean, the earliest record ive found is 1215 when a james was given the freedom of the forest, and life wardenship, to be handed down to his son. there is a church near ross that is our burial ground, one day i hope to be buried there. maybe that gene is why im happiest in woodland (and not on beaches...)
 
my maternal side is much less clear, i know mother was born in a caravan as was her mother as was her mother, roma. my maternal grandad was a joiner as was his father etc for 3 gen. i spent alot of time there as a child and would wake up to the swoosh sound of the plane as grandad smoothed a table and finished another piece. i know he was well respected,but due to religious differences when he died, my cousin got given all his tools. that guts me now, particularly as i know he has let them rot under a tarp cos hes a plumber. all i managed to salvage from my grandads workshop, were some detailed plans of sash windows. i now restore sash windows as my buisness and those plans are why.

MAK

  • Joined Nov 2011
  • Middle ish of France
    • Cadeaux de La forge
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #13 on: November 11, 2012, 07:54:13 pm »
Some really interesting stuff here.
I have no family records or knowledge of ancestors prior to just 2 generations ( my grandparents). Thus I find it facinating how far some of you can trace things.
By contrast the OH can go a very long way back in Norman/English history and even has a coat of arms. One of her relatives murdered Thomas Becket (< 1200 I think).
Hope she does not include "murder" as one of her ancestral skills passed down.
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luckylady

  • Joined Aug 2009
  • Yorkshire
Re: Ancestral skills passed down
« Reply #14 on: November 11, 2012, 08:04:38 pm »
i managed to salvage from my grandads workshop, were some detailed plans of sash windows. i now restore sash windows as my buisness and those plans are why.
Thats lovely ditw - inspired by your grandad his skills live on and you clearly get such pleasure from working with wood. :)
Hope she does not include "murder" as one of her ancestral skills passed down.
;D ;D ;D
« Last Edit: November 11, 2012, 08:08:53 pm by luckylady »
Doing that swan thing - cool and calm on the surface but paddling like crazy beneath.

 

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