ok,
the chip on the shoulder thing really got to me. i have spent some time deep in thought and i admit that i do sound like i have.
i want to make it clear that i have nothing against the 'haves' they pay my wages and i respect their achievements. i realise that my posts didnt come across that way.
ive also realised that its my choices that have put me in the situation im in. if it wasnt for my choice to step up and care for my daughter, or leave my ex, i could have probably got to a stage where i could have bought a house, i would have done it up, sold it, and worked my way up too.
ive also recognized that the goalposts have changed, it takes a couple working to afford a mortgage nowadays, not a single dad,
that ive swallowed.
im happy with my swap of getting richer for bringing up my girl and i think this thread has helped me realise that.
sorry if ive offended anyone, but there are people out there who are trying and working hard but know its never going to happen for them please bear them in mind, theres lots of us.