[Fluffywelshsheep]

Oh my goodness i have such a day today,
All involving my sd, !!!!
all i can say is she is being a self centre snecket B

she has been causing trouble between previous boyfriends and current ones which in turn involve her mum which is currently on a fine line herself (mental illness) which intern we get it because we get it from her mum.

Oh and not to mention she made her mum (who is a push over) drive her all the way to the other side of Edinburgh (Cochenzie) in the middle of the night, where she is currently hiding from current ex-boyfriend with previous by boyfriend

So i now got a stress head ache and getting fed up with everyone phoning the house!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
please take her away !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i know i had my moment but i didn't think i was that bad when i was younger


Sorry for rant !

Linz

[ukag0972]

I don't want her, but most of us have kids who have their "moments of madness"

Mine is only 16 and has such moments, I just keep hoping that the light at the end of the tunnel is coming up

[Fluffywelshsheep]

mine is 19 years old and should no better by now !!!!!!!!!
especially with all the rubbish she pulled already

[flipflopper]

Sorry cant help

got my hands full with a 10 yr old princess. Her mother and her cannot bear to be away from each other. Which is baffling when you hear  them together.

Try swapping her for a boy

My boy is super cool

He does a mean impression of me chilled on the sofa 

 

[garden cottage]

oh dear linz, cant help you there, my 3 girls do have their stroppy  moments  the joys of being a parent. at least the jack russell understands me......................neil

[Fluffywelshsheep]

At least you have a dog to confide in. I only have a goldfish which is another thing that she dumped on us at least it wasn't a Jack Russel puppy that she dumped on her mum.

I think my head is going to exploded.

I think im gona have to ban her from the house, lol
I don't think she like me anymore but we used to be like best friend/sisters when she lived here then she flipped the coin and i can't talk to her anymore as she is a total different person.

Linz

[ukag0972]

Have faith!!

Don't engage in any form of fighting with them, they always strop, shout, slam and threaten to make your life better by leaving. Its usually followed by a "you don't want me" scream and then floods of tears whiuch they feel is their god damn right to do, because " you've never had to deal with this" and "you'll never understand".

I wish I had a fiver for every huff and strop, I'd be rich enough to turn back time and snip my ovaries!!!

Have some chocolate, buy some useless piece of gadget that you think you need from the net and dream of childless days of frolicing in the grass!!!

If needed I'll despatch my dog for the purpose of confiding in, her ears are big and ready!!

x

[Fluffywelshsheep]

lol, Yeap had all that, also had 'I don't feel part of this family' to her dad and mum 'why do you always make me choices '

But am surprise and was waiting for it. ' Your not my mother' but never had that one lol

I know kids are kids just needed to rant because i had a full 4 hours of ranting from her mother this afternoon which i could do with out.

[Rosemary]

Yup, and it's the stepmothers that are supposed to be wicked...

[doganjo]

Just say ' I'm sorry, the baby is making me feel ill, I must go and lie down.  You must leave now.'  Then go into another room and wait for  them to go.

[sabrina]

Stop worrying what the girl is up to, she is old enough to look after herself. You need rest, peace and quite and if she cannot give you that then ban her from the house. You and the baby come first. Could be she is jealous. I have three sons and three stepsons and refuse to take any carry on. They are all grown up but at one point  they expected their dad to bail them out of all their money worries. (stepsons that is ) I started work at 15 and had to help out with money to support my younger brothers. Todays kids expect far too much from their parents 

[sandy]

This is normal behaviour, I had three girls, then I did specialist Foster Care for hard to place cared for children/young people and guess what?, they were nearly ALL girls and teenage girls at that. The best  way is to remain as calm as possible, not enter into arguments even better get out of the way as soon as you can and focus on something else, even washing up etc and as Anne said, tell her you are extra sensitive at the moment due to he baby and on that point, no matter what sort of relationship you have or had with any stepchildren, they will have difficult wit whatever you do and are bound to say you are not their mother, even if there mother was the worst person in the world, she is still their mother and often, step children will test to see how far they can go, also to get reassurance, remember, the baby maybe a threat to her as well, a good thing to do is to ask her for advice! ask her about her very early memories and re enforce, it is her flesh and blood as well. A lot or teenagers go off to Uni or similar and when they are there, parents have no (or maybe they do) idea of the things they are getting up to!!!!! I have had the lot from my three, Eating disorders, drug use, mixing with baddies!, violent boyfriends, mood swings and aggression etc etc...,stay calm!!!!!

[doganjo]

Yup, that's why I was glad both of mine went to Uni's away from home!  Didn't see what was going on in their lives, and so long as the exam results were OK we weren't bothered.  Didn't give them cash, gave them foodboxes instead so they couldn't waste OUR money on booze, fags and gambling - quite capable of doing that for ourselves  

They've both turned out just fine although one takes after her Dad (fussy, careful with money, well organised, intellectual, likes castles and ancient monuments, chorale music), and the other takes after me (totally disorganised, loves the outdoors, boating, fishing, spends money as fast as it comes in, likes garage and house music)

I'm sure wicked step daughter will come round when she meets her new baby sister or brother in a few months time.  Just relax and as Sandy says, ask for her help and advice.

[sandy]

Don't forget, If you have money people send their children away to boarding or finishing Schools or have nannies!!!!!! I had a phone call from one daughter who studdied Drama, she was laughing as she said she was having a curry night, she shared student accommodation with three young males all studying Drama and media and she said, they suggested the next curry night should be nude to save them making a mess of their clothing!!!!!!   I stayed once and there was a wall of bottles, another of Videos (bit before Cd's) cloths drying everywhere and flames comming out of  the electric socket when  you plugged in the hair dryer, all about growing up!

[Hilarysmum]

Hey dont worry, my brother is 50 something and still acts like a prima donna.  Makes you sd sound all sweetness and light.

Like everyone says dont get pulled into it.  Just keep looking after that baby.  Dont suppose your allowed a glass of wine ?  If so go for it.