Can I frighten you ? Just a wee bit ?

One thing midwifes will tell you is not to panic - 'you'll know when you do go into labour'............................. I DIDN'T

This resulted in a very hasty delivery in Ellon doctors surgery in Aberdeenshire, on the floor, with NO pain relief !!! But do you know what - it wasn't too bad (obviously it wasn't what I'd planned - just kind of happened!) and it's soon forgotten about, as is any negativeness/aches/pains etc as soon as you've got them in your arms. They could have cut off my leg there and then and I wouldn't have cared - I had my baby !
Second time round (on Xmas day of all days!) I definately knew what was going on - just as well I hear you say

My waters broke at 11.30am and Kaitlin was born just a little late for lunch at 1.30pm - quick, fairly easily and in the living room ! (pre-arranged this time after 1st times chaos)
You'll get told lots of horror stories (I think people enjoy terrifying 1st time mum's

) As long as you know what's happening to your body at each stage and why I think it makes it easier to deal with - plus it's all over in a relatively short space of time. Do plenty research and you'll feel calmer and more in control and you'll be fine.
After all - if it was that bad, no-one would ever have more than 1 child, and plenty do.
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