I was once told that the difference between a farmer and a smallholder can be seen in how they get in their sheep.
A farmer will drive them with a dog and/or a quad bike.
A smallholder calls them.
An interesting discussion, with some truth in Sally's quote.
We live in a smallholding, one that was built in 1935 by the Ministry of Agriculture & Fisheries to provide homes for ex-servicemen after the Great War. There are dozens of them - 17 at our address, another 10 or so a mile away, and similar smallholdings (all built to the same basic design) are scattered throughout Scotland. Most have changed over the past 75 years, simply because some were more viable than others and social habits have changed - many have horses, or market gardens, while others have lost the fields to neighbouring farms. We've lived here for 33 years, but initially without the land - just the house & steadings in about 1/2 acre. Four years ago we bought back the surrounding fields that originally were part of the holding, so now have 19 acres. Hebridean and Soay sheep with a few chickens keep us busy.
Since the postal address is as a smallholding, I'm happy to be called one, but also admit that I'm a hobby farmer since I could not maintain a viable income on just the land, therefore we continue to farm the land because we enjoy the lifestyle.
At the end, does it matter what we are called? I've always found the neighbouring farmers very helpful and supportive, even if we're not as commercial as they are. Additionally, quite a few farmers also have a second job to help make ends meet.
John