So there are two opposite ways of looking at things - buy the biggest most run-down house you can afford and do it up to sell so you can afford the next project (make a TV programme about it if you can which will up the resale price and be quite a nice little earner too), or buy the smallest house you can find (again needing a lot of work) but with the land you want, and stay there. We went for the second option after many years of looking at properties which were too big, or just too much work, or too close to town so too expensive. Unfortunately by the time we found our place our children were leaving home, so they missed out on a country life. We had had two allotments for many years though so always plenty of veg. Now all our grandchildren can enjoy our life with us.
I sometimes idly look through the properties with land for sale and I am often struck by the fact that the house is big and expensive with just a couple of acres. Maintenance costs alone for such large properties (without even mentioning the mortgage, although mortgages are eventually paid off

) are going to mean you would have to have a well-paid job to support them. Often it is the old farmhouse which could not be supported by the acreage the farmer had, so he sells it off and builds himself a small efficient bungalow.
We have never made a profit from our holding although our sales of pedigree sheep and eggs cover the price of winter hard feed for all the livestock - it then just becomes a big garden from the point of view of paying for it.
Like the others, we don't have holidays or buy expensive clothes, go out for meals (why would you when your own produce is so much better than anything a restaurant can serve?) or have expensive taste in anything. We buy mostly second hand equipment and my OH does it up and maintains it. Our enjoyment comes from living where we do and how we do. We have worked hard but now with my major health problem we are having to cut right back on the animals. But adaptability to circumstances is one of the skills of the smallholder, so things go on but differently.
Walking (or in my case now trundling in my all-terrain mob trike

) the boundaries and just looking at what we have - animals, hedges, crops, equipment, sheds (you can never have too many sheds), produce, a wonderful view, neighbours a respectable distance away, eachother - it's just great. Our estate, as shearling says
