@Sally, yes she has been a wee bit difficult. The man we bought her from had to delay the sale to us because she'd broken out before, and was in calf; they had to get the vet in to give one of those injections to abort.
The first time she ran off we did manage to get her back next day, but minus one horn which is a great pity. After second time, we put her into solitary confinement, sounds harsh but we had to repair the fencing where she'd broken through. During this time I handled her a lot and she's not as skitty and nervous as when we got her. Good luck with your wee heifer too <grin>. Sounds like you've exactly the same problem we have!
@Lachlan... wow did you say *had a calf at 13/14 months*
Counting fingers....4 or 5 months old when mated? Yikes! Anyway I'm glad she survived the birth. I have a Shetland bull to put to her! As you say rather him than my neighbour's great big beasties. Forget the name of the breed, sounds like a mathematical term than a cattle one.