I know someone said she would not ever get a horse till she had her own place , she was the groom after me at one place I worked 20 years ago. she said she could not put up with anything less than the best(thats as in care wise, not money wise, she doesn't have an arena or anything) she now has her horses at her own wee place.
recently I have begun to understand exactly what she means, because I used to enjoy yards and thought she was mad!!
I go up to see Abbey everyday, sometimes twice depending on my work. I help put out and bring in all the horses. I helped stack all the hay that was delivered, time after time. I fill water buckets, change rugs and help out as I do genuinely like being there around the horses.
the term for my current state of mind is "fair scunnered" and thats the polite version.
and this is one of the best available around here.