may sound soppy for a farmer with a team of dogs but its one of the saddest moments of my life loosing her and i can only hope to find another dog half as gifted in my lifetime
Not soppy at all. When you have a dog with whom you make that connection, when the communication and teamwork become things you don't even think about, aren't even consciously aware of... That is going to leave a hole.
Dot, now nearly 13 and rather hard of hearing, and I still work the sheep. When she started to be deaf, I had to realise that if she was out of earshot and made the wrong judgement about what we were doing, I would just have to go with her flow and finish the job she was now on. And then put the sheep where I
really wanted them afterwards, once we were close by again and I could give her direction. I felt good about being a caring enough owner / partner to make this accommodation for my faithful colleague and friend, so that she wouldn't ever have to feel bad about getting it "wrong"; I would never let her realise that.
Well, more fool me. It's a two-way thing, and the dog's ability to read sheep far outstrips mine, and clearly her ability to read
me also outstrips my ability to fool
her.
We did some work with the sheep at the weekend, and I realised when I got back that I had barely given her any input whatsoever, and yet she had done everything perfectly, including things where I generally have to give her some instruction or even put her the other side of the gate.
My clever, dedicated partner has realised that I can't seem to advise her vocally as well any more as I used to, and has worked out other signs she can pick up on. I'm telling her what I want and I have no idea how I am doing it - but she does.
Maybe I will be lucky and her successor and I will develop the same bond and working relationship. But it takes years to get to that level of connection and trust. She will be a big miss, and that's for sure. For now, I just cherish every day with her and especially every day when we can work the sheep and it goes well! :hugdog: