total respect sally. five under 9, a lawywer and smallholding. we have only one (6 year old) , my OH also is in the legal profession, but we would like an addittion before time runs out. she works really hard, long hours etc, but finds it difficult to join in and help me as she can't cope with the disorganised nature of things outdoors. she likes the end results, when placed on the table, but not how it got there. I think it is a lovely environment for kids, growing up around animals, it is healthy, both physically and mentally. I bet you rarely have time to sit and relax.
carl