Mummmm? I would not be able to run the B&B and Foster, all that stay in the house would have to be vetted anyway, that includes family and friends, like I say, done it before. The social worker said we would not hear or be able to monitor children as the house is also fairly sound proff ( we were packed full last night and it was so quiet you could hear a pin drop) She said any frightened child would have to walk a distance if they were in bed and we were watching TV downstairs, but thats stupid as we can hear people walk around above us and we would move our bedroom to one near to thiers and we would also have a monitor in thier room for them to contact us if needed...eg, thier bedroom would be abover our living room and we would sleep in a room next to them! As I said, the manager wants us to go ahead, the house suitablitiy usualy comes at a later stage but they brought that in first to highlight and to save time that little children would not be able to be monitered 24/7. Now most children would either be watching TV in the room with us or next to the kitchen, or doing an activity such as home work, arty stuff etc, playing on the gameing computer etc and as there would be two of us, we could certainly keep an eye on them!! THe teenagers I looked after were either at School, youth club, watching tv with me, cooking with me or eating, sitting in thier room listening to music or out with thier friends!!! The first time I fostered they were conserned that my small house was too nice, and that I would not like children messing it up, that was not the case at all...they may think the same in this house as its set out for B&B and not for children just now! The asessor was also not listening to us as she kept on about "young children" and kept saying we would have teenagers, she also saw we sleep downstairs and kept going on about that and I said, we would use one of the upstairs rooms next to any child!!!!! Not sure when the next stage happens as they are all on Leave at the moment.
PS, if there were another reason they would tell us I am positive as I have met others that have been refused and the social worker that came to make the asessement said, "so you are thinking about moving?" Any move in this economic climate would take a long while but they also seemed to think we could just move out of this house and into another, just like that!!!!!!! We did have a valuation and it was fine but we would never get such an ideal house and situation and would loose money in the sale and not be able to get another morgage as my husband is not in full time employment although he is this week!!!