I'm sorry arobwk, I realise that I've come across as very ungrateful - I was trying to say that the current accommodation is unliveable and not worth restoring due to the subsidence, however we could potentially still live on the land if we were able to make use of the hard stand. We currently live in a small bungalow and certainly have no objection to them!
Regardless, control of the land, what's left of the house and outbuildings etc., is the right of my husband's uncle and he's been kind enough to give us a part of it. It certainly won't be sold as it's belonged to his family for generations, and that's why I'm here. To learn and ask questions and to try to be more self sufficient.
I apologise for any offence caused.