[Fluffywelshsheep]

I would like to say sorry for not being around much at the moment i was hoping to becoming more of a regular to the group as i have got in to a Routine with R , (it amazing how long it can take to get back to do your 'own' stuff again). Anyway i have been hit a curve ball and now have to learn a new Routine again so please bear with me and if you need me it's best to 'pm' me or to email me direct.

[plumseverywhere]

sounds like you are going through a hard time at the moment    if you need a listening ear give me a shout - I always struggled to get my girls into any kind of routine so I know how hard it is, especially adapting when you already have babies/children its a big upheaval (much as we love them!!)
you take care and lots of love xx

[RUSTYME]

good to hear from you again Linz.  I'm not on as much as before either , lots of curved ba---  er well maybe not .... but lots going on, so don't get the time .
Hope everything is ok with you there , and that you managed to keep the garden going .

cheers

Russ
  
 

[Fluffywelshsheep]

baby is asleep at the moment so i can do stuff (he pillowed up on the bed lol)

belive it or not he'll be 1 year old next month.

My step sons have moved in with us so it a big up upheaval perminatly until they get their own flats (there mum 'ran away after yet another episode' but this time she aint returning)
So lots of change

[northfifeduckling]

That all sounds traumatic, Linz. We're thinking of you

[doganjo]

Linz, I'm only a village away - if you need any help just call.  I could take Robin for a while if it would help. And I'm sure Sandy would too - she's in the big city today!

[Hilarysmum]

Hi Linz lovely to see you back. 

[Sandy]

Hi Linz, glad to have you back on here, I'm sure things will improve, I have had times like that in my life, in fact my life still is like that...PS, I am so behind after having a day out and now more guests have arrived at the door...I just want some peace myself 

[Fluffywelshsheep]

Thank everyone,
It's ok just a bit hectic at the moment Our house is upside down, The boys are lazy but will do stuff if you ask them too, i just hate nagging. I need to learn to delegate !

boxes everywhere and furniture everywhere

I should be getting a placement again with the local play-scheme two seconds up the street, so will get a break and robin gets plenty of cuddles .

one good point is because the Termites have moved in not so much food to eat and i have lost nearly 3 kg (6lbs)

[Jackie]

Dont ever apollogise to us here for not being around as real life has first call on your time

Remember things with kids are usually phases, some last a long time and some dont, but they all pass.

Ill look forward to you returning on a more permanent basis 

[garden cottage]

Hi linz, keep yer chin up..............

[Fluffywelshsheep]

well we are hoping they get a room sooner rather than later but they are planning to go to uni one in 1 year and tuffer in 2 years so little one should get his room back when he three lol


Linz

[doganjo]

You're  saint for having them there Linz, and let's face it you're a far better Mum than their other one!

[Fluffywelshsheep]

thanks Annie

When Robin was born , she asked me 'what does it feel like now your a mum' , I had to so bite my tongue (it was around 3 in the morning when i got home , and i was tired and in pain so i thought i did good). I wanted to reply , 'Am already a mum to your lots' but i didn't cos i knew their would be a big fight, maybe i should of then she would have gone home lol.

I seriously think she gona do something bad to herself (not take her own life) but she taking alsorts of stuff, She even threatened one of the Son for his anxiety medication.

A couple of times i thought that some of T medication has disappeared (the stuff i gave her when he was visiting) but couldn't prove it but since then i have been very strict with what goes over there (he hasn't seen her in over 2 months) When i collected the boys stuff i search the cupboards for his medication and found a few bit and took it with us (I would imagine it's strong stuff).

[HappyHippy]

Oooo Linz, that's a tricky situation to be in  Part of me hopes she'll get herself sorted out for the boys sake, but then part of me wonders if maybe they would be better without her influence in their lifes  I hope it all works out for you.
But on a much cheerier note - WELCOME BACK  Glad you're doing well (and send the termites down here - I've got a few pounds still need shifting !)