Yes keep searching. This topic has been discussed many times, as it's close to smallholders hearts. People don't always have time to go over the same stuff again because there's too much to do outside, so see if you can find some of the older posts.
We began with both in jobs plus travel so didn't get much done on the smallholding, then we changed with me at home plus grandchild, and Mr F working full time. That can work, if the one with the job is willing to help with the heavy stuff in the evenings and at weekends, but it's hard going and there's no time for holidays (we haven't had one for 16 years, and that was a sheep conference
) . As long as you have your health it works, but as soon as there's a problem there you have to readjust your ideas.
As always, start small and build up slowly, with livestock species and with projects, as smallholding takes far more time and work that you think, even once you've been doing it for years you will get caught out.
Good luck and keep us in the loop.