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Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
Goodbye old girl
« on: April 07, 2010, 11:48:46 pm »
My old coloured Arab x Marti seemed to be walking stiffly on a front leg the other day.  Improved after a few days, so I thought she was on the mend. Then Easter Monday, she lay down in the field, as it was a nice day.  Unfortunately she could not get up. We did our best, but her front leg kept giving way and would not hold her weight.  Had to make the sad decision to let her go.  She was 31.  Just 14 months since her lifetime companion died.  Her new field mate is really upset and keeps going to the gate to look for her.

As always seems the case, Marti went down in the worst part of the field, and we had to drag her down with the Range Rover.  Thankfully no one was walking on the public footpath through the field, while this was going on.

Very strange not seeing her in the field, she was born here, so hard to remember a time without her.

jameslindsay

  • Joined Feb 2009
  • Nr St Andrews, Fife
  • "Blossom" one of my Pygmy Goats
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #1 on: April 08, 2010, 07:20:17 am »
Sorry to hear about your sad news Roxy, it is never easy. It's not only us that miss them as you say her pal is looking for her. Keep your chin up.

JulieS

  • Joined Mar 2009
  • Devon - EX39 5RF
    • Ford Mill Farm
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #2 on: April 08, 2010, 07:36:33 am »
Sorry to hear your news Roxy.  My thoughts are with you
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HappyHippy

  • Guest
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #3 on: April 08, 2010, 08:44:17 am »
At Grass by Philip Larkin
The eye can hardly pick them out
From the cold shade they shelter in,
Till wind distresses tail and main;
Then one crops grass, and moves about
- The other seeming to look on -
And stands anonymous again

Yet fifteen years ago, perhaps
Two dozen distances surficed
To fable them: faint afternoons
Of Cups and Stakes and Handicaps,
Whereby their names were artificed
To inlay faded, classic Junes -

Silks at the start: against the sky
Numbers and parasols: outside,
Squadrons of empty cars, and heat,
And littered grass : then the long cry
Hanging unhushed till it subside
To stop-press columns on the street.

Do memories plague their ears like flies?
They shake their heads. Dusk brims the shadows.
Summer by summer all stole away,
The starting-gates, the crowd and cries -
All but the unmolesting meadows.
Almanacked, their names live; they

Have slipped their names, and stand at ease,
Or gallop for what must be joy,
And not a fieldglass sees them home,
Or curious stop-watch prophesies:
Only the grooms, and the grooms boy,
With bridles in the evening come.

I studied this poem at school and (according to the teacher ;)) it's all about reaching a certain age and accepting that death is inevitable. But I hope you like it Roxy - I'm sorry to hear of your loss  :-* :-* :-*

JulieS

  • Joined Mar 2009
  • Devon - EX39 5RF
    • Ford Mill Farm
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #4 on: April 08, 2010, 09:41:50 am »
What a beautiful poem.
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Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #5 on: April 08, 2010, 10:14:48 am »
Sorry to hear about your pony. Thinking about you.

Funny how they get through the winter, then as the weather improves, it's over.

Roxy

  • Joined May 2009
  • Peak District
    • festivalcarriages.co.uk
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2010, 11:01:37 am »
Ahh, thank you HappyHippy,  thats lovely.  I keep seeing the Rainbow Bridge poem, and it sets me off howling, even when I have not lost an animal, so am avoiding any remembrance boards or anything just now, in case I see it!!

Yes, Rosemary, both my old horses have lasted through the winter, and then gone.  And this winter has been bad, with -15 temps, and heavy snow for 5 weeks.  Both my old ponies have lived out all their lives, with just natural shelter in the fields (gorse, dry stone walls etc.) and they coped well enough. The only concession was once in their twenties, they had winter rugs on.  I have never added up how much winter feed I used on them - but I know its a lot!!  I don't regret it though - you would not starve your granny would you :D

juliag

  • Joined Nov 2008
  • Wanstrow somerset
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2010, 05:17:28 pm »
xx Tears in my eyes, there are no words xx
juliag

little blue

  • Joined Jun 2009
  • Derbyshire
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2010, 07:23:42 pm »
so sorry about your old girl, what a great life she must have had to reach 31 with you
Little Blue

CameronS

  • Joined Aug 2009
  • North East Fife
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2010, 08:51:37 pm »
So sorry for you  :'(

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2010, 09:07:42 pm »

Yes, Rosemary, both my old horses have lasted through the winter, and then gone. 

I wonder if they wait for the sun.

Annie22

  • Joined Apr 2010
  • Hoddles Creek
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #11 on: April 09, 2010, 05:11:52 am »
Sad for your loss Roxy, how is the other pony going?

Minigris

  • Joined Mar 2010
  • Sweden
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #12 on: April 09, 2010, 05:42:44 am »
Sorry to hear.....wish you all the strength you need  :bouquet:
Hej då från Sverige,= greetzzz from Sweden
Monique

3 Flatcoated retrievers, 1 Irish shepherd, 1 Westy, 1 Mainecoon, 1 Housecat, 5 Ducks, 13 Chickens, 2 Pigs

daniellestocks

  • Joined Jun 2009
  • Nr Pickering, North Yorkshire
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #13 on: April 09, 2010, 12:10:30 pm »
Sorry to hear of your loss, 31 long happy years, think of all the good times xxx  :love:

Sylvia

  • Joined Aug 2009
Re: Goodbye old girl
« Reply #14 on: April 09, 2010, 03:47:37 pm »
Been there, done that, so many times. Howling with you. God bless xx.

 

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