First step is to take any heating and cooking away from electricity and use bottled gas, wood, etc.
That should leave a managable electrical requirement for everything else. LED lighting is fantastic, you will probably find your main consumer of electricity is the freezer, especially if you are producing and storing your own food. Worth buying the most efficient fridge and freezer you can find.
The units that electricity is measured in are kilowatt hours (kwh), i.e. one unit equals a load of 1000w for an hour.
Are you willing to consider running a generator to meet some of your needs? Thinking more out of the box, you could consider combined heating and power generation, e.g. a wood fuelled steam engine running a generator.
A combination of solar and hydro is a good bet, as the two should balance out through the year. Solar has become very affordable and IMHO more cost effective than wind for small installations. Hydro is extremely site specific but can be very reliable.
Batteries are expensive, environmentally not very friendly, and need regular replacement. You want to avoid or minimise their use, if you can.