Sooooo much better Shygirl
He is quite relaxed in his bed in the utility and I bring him out for cuddles and put him back when it's too stressful. I finish work tomorrow and then have a day away.... after that its doggy diapers and some quality time with them all
I can't thank you all enough for your advice.
Funnily enough, the rescuer just told me he hated being cuddled, not true, he absolutely adores it! I confidently expect to watch at least an hours TV tonight with some Luca cuddles at the same time