I have to say that we had just hens for a couple of years and then last year introduced one of our home-grown cockerels.
I was aghast.... within about five minutes he had taken charge of all the girls and they quite clearly looked to him for leadership. We've had much MUCH less squabbling since we've had him and it's been easier to introduce new hens.
He really does look out for them and if he finds a good patch to scratch he will often scratch and then stand back and let the hens have first look.
He's such a gent and doesn't have "favourites" who he treads into the ground
but treats them all pretty equally.
We showed him early on who was boss. As soon as he started pecking the back of my wellie as I was leaving the pen (when he was a youngster) I chased him round and round. I only had to do that once. We treat each other with respect now but whenever I go in the pen he always comes up to me first and keeps a beady eye on me - just to make sure that I'm doing my job
And of course - now that we've got some Maran hens from a different line (thanks DBE
) we will breed from him next year. It goes without saying that he looks magnificent. Fortunately we don't find him too noisy and I doubt the neighbors can hear him.
Sorry - I've gone on. It's wonderful having a cockerel.