OK! OK! it's not about protecting his females, etc., etc., it's about superiority! Take charge! YOU are the boss. When he comes at you ..............you kick him square, right in his chest and lift him off his feet -no, it is not unkind.... it is about letting him know YOU are the boss! It hurts nothing but his pride. You may have to do it twice (unusual) but it will let him know you are the BOSS!