I'm back, sorry, it was pretty silly of me to delete my account. Sweet of you though

I felt got at. But reading the rest of the thread, it's got pretty heated and oddly that makes me feel less singled out and there are people it seems (bless you DITW and YL) who also feel strongly about it as I do.
Stretched a bit thin at the moment, parents were in Oz visiting brother for 6 weeks so yours truly looking after their smallholding half an hour away, as well as my own, then Dad taken very ill, barely got back to the UK, into hospital, heart op tomorrow, so add three hour round trips visiting as well.
So please excuse my touchiness <embarrassed>