Author Topic: Ignoring other members  (Read 87650 times)

Small Farmer

  • Joined Jan 2012
  • Bedfordshire
Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #45 on: May 31, 2012, 07:33:02 pm »
It's actually quite entertaining to use the Ignore setting and then try to work out what was said from the before and after posts.  You do need to know the style of the ignored person though.


Personally I loathe the emotiwotsits which mostly just add noise.  But they are very popular.
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jaykay

  • Joined Aug 2012
  • Cumbria/N Yorks border
Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #46 on: May 31, 2012, 09:09:25 pm »
Ah, now for me emotiwhatsits convey at least as much meaning as the actual words  :D

SallyintNorth

  • Joined Feb 2011
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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #47 on: May 31, 2012, 09:33:40 pm »
A honeymoon couple ordered a platter of a dozen oysters on their wedding night.  The following morning, the concierge asked, with a knowing grin, how they had enjoyed their oysters.  "Well," said the bride, "they were alright, but only 9 of them worked."

Sall-eee  :D :D :D

Dan, I love the new emotiwotsits - pleeeeaaaasssee can I have a couple more?  :eyelashes:  Being :fingers crossed: and (needed above!) :moi???  innocence personified:   ;)
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Bangbang

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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #48 on: May 31, 2012, 10:26:10 pm »
If the forum is treated like a library, with its many Topics subjects and authors, then surely when we browse through it we should select the things that suit our preferences and needs.
So there should be no concerns about ignoring a postie. If you were in a library and didn't like a topic or a particular author then you wouldn't pick it up.
On the flip side if you delete all the posties you dont think you like then who are you going to have a moan about in your head ?
 

Dan

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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #49 on: June 01, 2012, 07:30:21 am »
Dan, I love the new emotiwotsits - pleeeeaaaasssee can I have a couple more?  :eyelashes:  Being :fingers crossed: and (needed above!) :moi???  innocence personified:   ;)

 :innocent: :fc: :thumbsup:

Dan

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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #50 on: June 01, 2012, 07:32:11 am »
If the forum is treated like a library, with its many Topics subjects and authors, then surely when we browse through it we should select the things that suit our preferences and needs.
So there should be no concerns about ignoring a postie. If you were in a library and didn't like a topic or a particular author then you wouldn't pick it up.

This is good! I like to think of it a a party, where when you circulate you may acknowledge the presence of particular guests, but certainly wouldn't want to stick around to hear what they have to say. :)

doganjo

  • Joined Aug 2012
  • Clackmannanshire
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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #51 on: June 01, 2012, 08:59:30 am »
If the forum is treated like a library, with its many Topics subjects and authors, then surely when we browse through it we should select the things that suit our preferences and needs.
So there should be no concerns about ignoring a postie. If you were in a library and didn't like a topic or a particular author then you wouldn't pick it up.

This is good! I like to think of it a a party, where when you circulate you may acknowledge the presence of particular guests, but certainly wouldn't want to stick around to hear what they have to say. :)
Exactly my thoughts, but sometimes you just catch a few words and your blood boils at their sheer stupidity and are so tempted to respond to put them right, so I am coming round to your ignoring them idea as it will assist my self control. *cheeks sucked in and eyebrows raised*
Always have been, always will be, a WYSIWYG - black is black, white is white - no grey in my life! But I'm mellowing in my old age

SallyintNorth

  • Joined Feb 2011
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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #52 on: June 01, 2012, 09:16:51 am »
Dan, I love the new emotiwotsits - pleeeeaaaasssee can I have a couple more?  :eyelashes:  Being :fingers crossed: and (needed above!) :moi???  innocence personified:   ;)

 :innocent: :fc: :thumbsup:

 :thumbsup:  Thank you Dan!  :-*   Love them!   ;D
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suziequeue

  • Joined Feb 2010
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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #53 on: June 01, 2012, 10:34:50 am »
Dan
 
How do you do them? ;D ;D
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gardenjeannie

  • Joined Jan 2013
Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #54 on: January 08, 2013, 03:20:02 am »
I'd actually be fascinated to know who blocks who - but I don't want to know, if you know what I mean! 

Personally, I think a bit of friction is the grit in the oyster that makes the pearl.  Otherwise it's just something that slides down smoothly but is ultimately forgettable.  ;)
I think oysters are all forgettable ;D  with or without grit  ;)

A honeymoon couple ordered a platter of a dozen oysters on their wedding night.  The following morning, the concierge asked, with a knowing grin, how they had enjoyed their oysters.  "Well," said the bride, "they were alright, but only 9 of them worked."

Sall-eee  :D :D :D


How about Nanny Ogg's famous 'carrot and oyster pie'??
Carrots so's you can see in the dark, and oysters so's you got summat to look at!  :D :D


Buy Nanny Ogg's cook book. It's hilarious :thumbsup:






Wish I had been on when this conversation still going!  Nanny Ogg's the best!  And her recipes are usable.  Mrs Beeton will never look the same again! :roflanim:

Mel Rice

  • Joined Sep 2011
Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #55 on: January 08, 2013, 06:54:57 am »
Not everyone gets with everyone else and if it was a room full of people all chatting there would be some who would choose to not engage with a particular person...as long as its not obvious then I see no problem. The written word is so much more permenant than the spoken (unless thats all recorded too ) I think it is a good idea this blocking thing I mean....Hope I wont use it either though!

SallyintNorth

  • Joined Feb 2011
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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #56 on: May 29, 2014, 12:29:16 am »
Okay, maybe I am just becoming a bit grumpy old woman... Waddya mean, Sal, 'becoming'?! haha very funny...

I see we no longer haven an ignore user function, and I would like to use it. 

I'm not so bothered about hiding the text of a person's posts; what I want is for their postings to not affect my 'new' settings - so if the only update on a thread is from the ignored person, then that thread will not appear on my 'New Replies' and 'Unread' lists.

Several times recently I have just walked away from TAS because someone has splattered all the threads with utter tosh and nonsense (IMO), and I really can't be bothered to open every single thread to see if there is any update worth reading besides what this numpty has written.


There, that's better.  Thank you.

All I have to do is give it 12 hours or so, and the threads with any genuine conversation happening will get updated again. 

Rant over.   :sunshine:
Don't listen to the money men - they know the price of everything and the value of nothing

Live in a cohousing community with small farm for our own use.  Dairy cows (rearing their own calves for beef), pigs, sheep for meat and fleece, ducks and hens for eggs, veg and fruit growing

Cluckinggoodpoultry

  • Joined Mar 2009
Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #57 on: May 29, 2014, 06:27:15 am »
There is always another way of doing it rather than ignoring the post, on some sites there is a kudos button, could you not do this as a like and dislike at the bottom of the post, thumbs up thumbs down? Similar to what AndynJ has just suggested.


 I'm sure if people started getting dislikes they maybe realise that they need to step back and think about what they are writing.


I was looking for the like button as Sally int North has put up some really cracking comments.


I too saw the tongue in cheek emoticon as something entirely different, and at this time on a morning my mind really needs to behave  :innocent:

SallyintNorth

  • Joined Feb 2011
  • Cornwall
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Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #58 on: May 29, 2014, 06:58:36 am »
Ooooh, sorry, I've unwittingly started the whole 'like/dislike/karma' debate again... can't think what emoticon to use for "Oh no not again" - perhaps we need a bowl of petunias...

However, since it's done... it maybe is worth discussing again...

Because I do worry sometimes that not all new members, who've joined to ask for help with something, will be able to distinguish the useful from the misleading.  And because we are a polite forum, whose members do not jump in and say, "That's rubbish, Sal!", or, "Yes, but yours always die, don't they?!", there may not be many or any clues to the uninitiated...
Don't listen to the money men - they know the price of everything and the value of nothing

Live in a cohousing community with small farm for our own use.  Dairy cows (rearing their own calves for beef), pigs, sheep for meat and fleece, ducks and hens for eggs, veg and fruit growing

bloomer

  • Joined Aug 2010
  • leslie, fife
  • i have chickens, sheep and opinions!!!
Re: Ignoring other members
« Reply #59 on: May 29, 2014, 07:14:05 am »
the ignore list function is still there it is in your profile at the bottom there is a tab called buddies/ignore list you have to manually enter the name of the person you want to ignore.

 

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