ELLISR that is so kind thank you so much,
You are all amazing, the kind words and support is helping me so so much

We have decided what to do food wise for the wedding, its going to be a big big breckfast, i.e a hotel buffet style breckfast menu, with stuff like, a big fry up, cereals, fresh fruit, porridge, fruit salad,
Has anyone any more ideas food wise that we could add?? the fry up will consist of eggs, beans, tomatoes, bacon, sausages, chops, black pudding, white pudding, mushrooms, eggy bread, etc etc
The exploratory op went ok today, my OH has had his stomach peg put in, he was sore and sleepy this afternoon, but in good spirits. They think they may of found another tumour on the other side of his neck, so he was sent for a cat scan this afternoon and they tried to do an aspiration needle, but the nurse couldnt find the lump so that was abandoned, but the consultant said he would look at the cat scan and have the MRI results back in the morning, so he will go through all the results and let us know the findings at lunchtime tomorrow ( scary stuff) im dreading it, but we need to know now, we need to know what we are taking on and come up with a battle plan, i am focused and determined this bloody thing is not going to beat us,
A wedding album sounds like a wonderful idea im so looking forward to marrying my OH and making my life complete.
This thing will not take him away i will not let it

Thanks again everyone for everything
