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faith0504

  • Joined Aug 2010
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Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #90 on: March 21, 2011, 04:58:23 pm »
Hi every one the wedding plans are going well, we had the meeting with the gentleman that is going to marry us yesterday, we have prepared the service and done our vows so he has taken everything away to put it in order for the day, my brother is giving me away and OHs son is best man, everyone is in the spirit of nightwear, be in all in one, pjs or nighties, its giving everyone something to laugh about.
I have told everyone if they dont have tartan nightwear just to add something tartan, i.e a ribbon.
The date and time is set

4th april at 2pm a fortnight today, its my birthday.

OH is now in hospital, missing him terribly ??? the consultant has decided not to operate to remove the tumour tomorrow, he is going to do an exploratory op first to see exactually where the tumour is, what it is attached to and how big it is, plus he is going to put the chest peg in.

We have a meeting with him on wednesday lunchtime to get all the results and find out what action is going to be taken.

We are all in a positive frame of mind, LET BATTLE COMMENCE  i said when we got up at 4am this morning, and its been the saying of the day, we will beat this bu**er

We can go and visit tomorrow, OHs son brought me home at lunchtime, so im not over doing it with my back, and he has gone back to the hosp to spend the rest of the day with his dad.

Thank you for the all the support and lovely things your all going to do when we get married, i will post some pictures, of our pj party  ::), so you can all join in the laughter with us  ;D


 :bouquet: :bouquet: :bouquet: :wave: :wave: :wave: :wave:

ellisr

  • Joined Sep 2009
  • Wales
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #91 on: March 21, 2011, 05:11:22 pm »
Now I have to go shopping to get something tartan doubt I'll get jim jams in tartan down here, but I must join in and celebrate the great day. I know how the treatment can wear you down so stay positive as things will now move along at a pace

faith0504

  • Joined Aug 2010
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Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #92 on: March 21, 2011, 05:20:54 pm »
positive but worn out i havnt really slept since last wednesday, need someone to hit me over the head with a rubber hammer  ::) ::)

Hilarysmum

  • Joined Oct 2007
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #93 on: March 21, 2011, 05:40:16 pm »
I dont quite know what to say, but want you both to know we are rooting for you. ...

sabrina

  • Joined Nov 2008
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #94 on: March 21, 2011, 08:54:03 pm »
Keeping fingers crossed that you get some good news, think your wedding plans are great  :wave:

ellisr

  • Joined Sep 2009
  • Wales
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #95 on: March 22, 2011, 08:40:17 am »
I know sleep is hard when your mind is racing but it is very necessary so try and get some herbal tablets or if it is really bad speak to the doctor you will be amazed at how much more you can think straight after 1 nights sleep. Also if you don't sleep it will wear you down and we can't be having that you have a pretty bracelet to wear and make you feel happy.

faith0504

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Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #96 on: March 22, 2011, 11:43:04 am »
hiya had to take some tramadol for my back last night so they made me sleep, do feel better sleepwise today,

saving that bracelet for my wedding  ;) :wave:

were justing for news that OH is back on the ward from his exploratory then were going to see him

ellisr

  • Joined Sep 2009
  • Wales
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #97 on: March 22, 2011, 12:19:54 pm »
Why don't you choose something from my collection for your wedding and it can be my gift to you  ;)

Sandy

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Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #98 on: March 22, 2011, 07:10:49 pm »
That is so nice :bouquet: We have a B&B and I am near to tears after one of our guests told me about his wife who died last year of breast cancer and how he has a new girlfriend just going for treatment for the same thing, you never ever should take things for granted I keep telling myself and to see all those on here who are supporting you is so lovely :bouquet: BIG Forum wedding party on here for you I think!!...p.s, at least we can all take part without having to dress up!!!! maybe I should put mine on too!!

doganjo

  • Joined Aug 2012
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Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #99 on: March 22, 2011, 07:37:43 pm »
BIG Forum wedding party on here for you I think!!...p.s, at least we can all take part without having to dress up!!!! maybe I should put mine on too!!
I can lend you a tartan scarf for the occasion, Sandy - and we can take pics of each other for the wedding album! ;D
Always have been, always will be, a WYSIWYG - black is black, white is white - no grey in my life! But I'm mellowing in my old age

faith0504

  • Joined Aug 2010
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Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #100 on: March 22, 2011, 11:18:14 pm »
ELLISR that is so kind thank you so much,

You are all amazing, the kind words and support is helping me so so much  :bouquet:

We have decided what to do food wise for the wedding, its going to be a big big breckfast, i.e a hotel buffet style breckfast menu, with stuff like, a big fry up, cereals, fresh fruit, porridge, fruit salad,

Has anyone any more ideas food wise that we could add?? the fry up will consist of eggs, beans, tomatoes, bacon, sausages, chops, black pudding, white pudding, mushrooms, eggy bread, etc etc

The exploratory op went ok today, my OH has had his stomach peg put in, he was sore and sleepy this afternoon, but in good spirits. They think they may of found another tumour on the other side of his neck, so he was sent for a cat scan this afternoon and they tried to do an aspiration needle, but the nurse couldnt find the lump so that was abandoned, but the consultant said he would look at the cat scan and have the MRI results back in the morning, so he will go through all the results and let us know the findings at lunchtime tomorrow ( scary stuff) im dreading it, but we need to know now, we need to know what we are taking on and come up with a battle plan, i am focused and determined this bloody thing is not going to beat us,

A wedding album sounds like a wonderful idea im so looking forward to marrying my OH and making my life complete.

This thing will not take him away i will not let it  :'(



Thanks again everyone for everything  :bouquet: :bouquet: :bouquet: :bouquet: :bouquet: :wave: :wave:

scotelf

  • Joined Aug 2010
  • West Lothian
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #101 on: March 23, 2011, 12:01:10 am »
You both sound really strong, good on ya!

I'm not really good at writing about what I'm thinking or feeling, but just to say I'm thinking of you both.

My mum goes for a mammogram on Thursday after a year of treatment for breast cancer to see how things are, so I kind of know all the emotions you are going through. I wish you and your OH (McRoxy) all the very best.

As the others say, we are here for you.

Lynn, x

PS. Your wedding plans sound great, I wish you all the very best for the big day and I'll join with the rest of the forum in your chosen theme!
« Last Edit: March 23, 2011, 12:03:32 am by scotelf »
Lynn :)

Rosemary

  • Joined Oct 2007
  • Barry, Angus, Scotland
    • The Accidental Smallholder
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #102 on: March 23, 2011, 08:57:42 am »
Smoked fish - either kippers or kedgeree. Yummy - I love fish for breakfast. If you can't have it at your wedding breakfast, we'll have it here, in tartan and drink a toast to you all.

loosey

  • Joined May 2010
  • Cornwall
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #103 on: March 23, 2011, 10:26:58 am »
Kedgeree would be lovely with the breakfast spread.

I have just posted on Facebook to see if I can borrow something tartan for the 4th  ;D I am also going to see if I can get some fabric to make a little scarf for Daisy so she can join the celebrations!

You are doing an amazing job Faith. I am welling up with how proud I feel of you both. You are a wonderful, wonderful person and you both deserve to win this one!xxx :love:

Jackie

  • Joined Nov 2009
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #104 on: March 23, 2011, 04:14:50 pm »
Oh I have just seen this thread :( my bad!

Im so very sorry that you are going through all this. My thoughts and good wishes are sent to you. Stay strong :)

 

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