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darkbrowneggs

  • Joined Aug 2010
    • The World is My Lobster
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #15 on: March 16, 2011, 05:08:02 pm »
Thinking of you all with love :bouquet:  Sue
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morri2

  • Joined Jun 2008
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #16 on: March 16, 2011, 05:08:29 pm »
Oh! Faith what a shock that must be, I wish you and you OH all the very, very best.  It will be a difficult time for you both, but you must be strong for his sake.  He's going to need you more than ever right now.  Chin up and let us know how things progress - I'll be thinking of you.  :wave: :bouquet: :hshoe:

Eastling

  • Joined Oct 2010
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #17 on: March 16, 2011, 05:09:40 pm »
What a massive shock for you all. You need to all be able to talk about you fears and feeling. Be strong for each other. My thoughts are with you good luck for Monday  :bouquet:
Labradors leave foot prints on your heart as well as your clothes

horsemadmummy

  • Joined Feb 2010
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #18 on: March 16, 2011, 05:26:43 pm »
the words are not mine but theyhave helped me through really awful times - My prayers are with you...................

May you always have an angel by your side
Watching out for you in all the things you do
Reminding you to keep believing in brighter days
Finding ways for your wishes and dreams
To take you to beautiful places

Giving you hope that is as certain as the sun
Giving you the strength of serenity as your guide
May you always have love and comfort and courage
And may you always have an angel by your side

May you always have an angel by your side
Someone there to catch you if you fall
Encouraging your dreams
Inspiring your happiness
Holding your hand and helping you through it all

In all of our days, our lives are always changing
Tears come along as well as smiles
Along the roads you travel,
May the miles be a thousand times more lovely than lonely,
May they give you the kind of gifts that never, ever end:

Someone wonderful to love
And a dear friend in whom you can confide
May you have rainbows after every storm
May you have hopes to keep you warm
And may you always have an angel
By your side...


katie

  • Joined Feb 2008
  • worcs
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #19 on: March 16, 2011, 05:35:03 pm »
Thinking of you.
K

JulieS

  • Joined Mar 2009
  • Devon - EX39 5RF
    • Ford Mill Farm
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #20 on: March 16, 2011, 05:36:49 pm »
Love and hugs from me
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horsemadmummy

  • Joined Feb 2010
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #21 on: March 16, 2011, 06:42:02 pm »
some words to inspire you..............

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,

When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than

It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
Whe he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out -

The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

horsemadmummy

  • Joined Feb 2010
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #22 on: March 16, 2011, 06:47:37 pm »
one last poem - i will be watching this thread and hope it all works out for you both

Footprints in the Sand
 
 
        One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
             Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
                  In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
                       Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
                           other times there were one set of footprints.
 
                                  This bothered me because I noticed
                                that during the low periods of my life,
                             when I was suffering from
                         anguish, sorrow or defeat,
                     I could see only one set of footprints.
 
          So I said to the Lord,
      "You promised me Lord,
         that if I followed you,
             you would walk with me always.
                   But I have noticed that during
                          the most trying periods of my life
                                 there have only been one
                                       set of footprints in the sand.
                                           Why, when I needed you most,
                                          you have not been there for me?"
 
                                 The Lord replied,
                          "The times when you have
                  seen only one set of footprints,
          is when I carried you."
                                                   Mary Stevenson

scotelf

  • Joined Aug 2010
  • West Lothian
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #23 on: March 16, 2011, 07:03:36 pm »
Thinking of you , Lynn
Lynn :)

Fowgill Farm

  • Joined Feb 2009
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #24 on: March 16, 2011, 07:05:36 pm »
Don't know what to say but good thoughts & prayers wing their way thro' the eether to you all.
Mandy x

knightquest

  • Joined May 2010
  • Birmingham
    • Knight Pet Supplies
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #25 on: March 16, 2011, 07:31:50 pm »
Hello... what can anyone say.

You will feel totally sick to your stomach, frightened, unsure and utterly fragile. Be true to yourself, feel all your emotions.....and be human. You will not be the person he loves if you switch off your feelings to try to protect him. None of us are superhuman, we can be strong for our loved ones but we have to accept that we will get it wrong, say the wrong things, and want to scream cry etc. Let him be strong for you, too!

I am going through an awful horrible illness with my daughter- she is starting to relapse at the moment. It breaks my heart to see her suffer and to know that this wont have a good ending...but, I still get angry with her, yell at her.... have blazing rows etc.... as well as laugh and giggle... I dont hold back just because she is ill. Its tough, but it is not just life, but living that is important!! .....Remember to laugh and giggle, too!!

a big dollop of virtual HOPE coming your way....Emma T



Hello Faith, pikililys' post says it all as far as I can see. We are here for you to talk to and you can talk as much as you like. If you want someone to shout at and swear at to make you feel better then pm me and you can have my mobile number.

We've got friends going through similar so know a little of what you are going through.

Be strong for him but be sure to look after yourself too. Our friends have done research which seems to show that reducing sugar in the diet helps too. Perhaps someone could look in to this for you.

Here's a huge HUG for you guys and best bishes too.

Good luck,
Ian
Ian (me), Diane (my wife) and 4 dogs. Ollie (Lab mix) , Quest (Malamute), Gazer and Boris (Leonbergers)

TheGirlsMum

  • Joined Sep 2010
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #26 on: March 16, 2011, 07:35:00 pm »
My thoughts are with you

northfifeduckling

  • Joined Jan 2009
  • Fife
    • North Fife Blog
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #27 on: March 16, 2011, 07:36:48 pm »
Faith, thinking of you and your OH - hope all goes well! :bouquet: :&>

Hardfeather

  • Guest
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #28 on: March 16, 2011, 07:47:23 pm »
I'm sorry to hear that, Faith. Try to be strong and commited to your dream. Don't suppress your emotions.

Sudanpan

  • Joined Jan 2009
  • West Cornwall
    • Movement is Life
Re: had some shocking news today
« Reply #29 on: March 16, 2011, 07:54:32 pm »
Can only second all the thoughts that hae been posted already.
Remember to take care of yourself so that you have the strength to support your OH
All the best
Tish

 

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