for what it's worth and I fully appreciate that MANY roads lead to Rome.
We used to live in Berkshire and wanted to move to Scotland. Originally we were looking at Aberdeenshire but decided Moray suited us more.
1) We got the estate agents round and asked how to get MAX value from the house (redecorating/getting rid of naff conservatory/new carpets etc etc), followed their advice and put it on the market beginning March. Even though it was an ex-council house (and looked it) managed to sell it within 6 days.
2) Rented property in Moray whilst looking for the 'right place'. Took just under two years but now have a lovely home (almost as good as Dan and Rosemary's - that's a thought, buy theirs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Guess the message here is sell first then you are in a better position to offer on the new place and have already 'let go' of the past. As the saying goes; good things come to those who wait. BUT are also clear of intent and have faith.
Ha, was posting this and Faith0504 got in there first. The small holding fairies have something to say perhaps!!??
Write a 'wish list' being clear what you would (realistically) like. Stick to it. Fuzzy thinking/changing mind may delay the arrival of your wishes.
I really hope you fulfill your goals. Please keep us posted.