So ram going in 5th nov was plucked out of mid air ,more like 15th oct . I assume from other posts that you want to milk the ewes , so bottle feeding the lambs , if so then you have to train the ewes to accept the stand before lambing and then to be happy with you touching her udder ,this all takes time . If you wish to suckle the lambs on mother then restrain her with a halter /headstock and teach her to accept both lambs , if this is her first lambs she can be a bit clueless to start but normally settle